I got a slew of messages about this video…

(First thing, all these couples should go to You Tube because their images are being used, more than likely without their permission, with is totally illegal.)

The fact that this video has been shared on Facebook over 38,000 times and co-signed by many makes me frightened at the level of non-critical thinking many in our country have. Here’s my take…

Love this quote from my Facebook friend, a white man who dates black women exclusively…

If someone is surrounded with fear, anger, aggressiveness, distrust, disrespect etc. then these type of emotions are typically reciprocated. if there are more positive elements within a relationship then more positive elements will be reciprocated. I guess the real question here would be, “what group of men (who date or marry black women) display more positive elements to make a black woman more comfortable with being submissive? black men or white men?”

From a female reader reevaluating her blind loyalty…

This video is just another way for ppl to try to down black women no matter what we do they will find fault. We act the same way with black men but it goes unnoticed until we start dating out our race then they want to complain about that, we will never win. Most black women are like this until they get dragged through the mud by our some of our black men and when we switch sides we can be who we really are submissive to our man. But whos going to keep being submissive when u r getting treated like shit ? At some point enough is enough. I mean look how they talk about us on their songs so im all for interracial dating hell black men been doing if for years and now we start doing we are wrong psst gtfoh lol i haven’t dated outside my race yet cause i love my black men but to be honest this generation of black men coming up are the weakest with all this pill popping and homosexual activities we only have other races to run too. Prime example look at rich homie quan. If that’s what’s left in the black community im out the game. lol

And another from a white man…

 I would bet money that if the white guys shown in this video treated their black partner with disrespect you would see a whole different side of these women. It doesn’t matter what color you are. You get what you give. Give love and respect get the same right back. Color has no weight in this. Culture on the other hand may play a role.