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Check This Doozy of a QOTW. How Many Times Have We...

Normally I give my thoughts about a Question of the Week immediately after I post it. Not this time. This woman’s story is so typical and tragic...
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Check Out My New Series, “Black People On Yo...

If you’re not yet a subscriber to my YouTube channel at this point, I just don’t know what to say to your anymore. Maybe we need to reeval...
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Why Black Women (Especially) Need to Avoid Paraben...

I know how it is. You’re at the drug store, and you need to pick up some lipstick, lotion, and conditioning cream for your hair. You’re on...
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Washington Post: “I Feel Guilty for Being a ...

The Washington Post recently ran an essay by a black woman who wrote about her internal struggle with guilt about dating interracially. Like with most...
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Rob Kardashian Gets Left by Blac Chyna Days Before...

Lawd…the drama continues with this train wreck of a family. It appears that Blac Chyna has absconded with Rob Kardashian’s baby Grinch sty...
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They’re FINALLY Here! “Swirling”...

Honestly I don’t know why it took me this long to get this going; chalk it up to eh…I dunno. But! Here they are, the t-shirts you’ve...
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Climb Those Walls! Toby Macguire Seen Kissing a Si...

I love this little bit of cheeky news, because I’ve always like Toby Maguire–he has that nerdy/sexy thing happening. Sorry about his recen...
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Zoe Saldana Plays the Lead Romantic Interest of Be...

Ben Affleck and Zoe Saldana star in a movie called “Live By Night,” set to premiere January 14. Zoe Saldana is Afro Latina and Ben Affleck...
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Chinese Men are Snatching Up Ugandan Women, and th...

Interracial dating and interracial marriage is increasing internationally. The government of Uganda is becoming increasingly concerned that Chinese me...
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Bonus QOTW: College Man Afraid of Physical Intimac...

Hello, Christelyn- Let me start by telling you how much I love your videos. You put a fresh spin on interracial relationships with realistic advice th...
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QOTW: “Did I Give Too Much, Too Soon?”

Recently I got a question from a young lady who was very distraught about how to proceed in a “friends with benefits” situation she as hav...
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Christelyn’s Big Announcement! Swirling Arou...

This has been a secret I’ve had a really hard time keeping and am really glad I don’t have to anymore! Remember all those conversations yo...
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A Letter from a Black Man: “You are NOT obli...

Sometimes I get notes that are just so profound and timely that I just have to share. With all the railing against the segment of hateful black men wh...
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How to Do an Interracial Marriage Culture Merge

Interracial couplings are at the highest in American history with new Census data reporting that 1 in 10 married couples are mixed. People are merging...
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