How Madison Avenue Keeps Stereotypes of Black Wome...

The media is still at work to remind the world that black women are mannish, hyper sexual and repulsive. Does this photo ring a bell? It’s a scr...
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Amazing Weekend Deal for 100% Cosmetics!

You guys know I’m a junky for this stuff, and the folks on the blog who have tried it have also raved! But if you’re still on the fence, t...
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QOTW: Black Woman Interested in White Guy with Bla...

The question: Hello Christelyn,   I admire you for your work counseling black women and interracial couples! Thank you for your strength and passion!...
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Time to Get Real About Protecting Black Women from...

Last week when I did a video about a fan of mine who’s bestie was a gay male with HIV practicing unsafe sex practices, we got a troll from the u...
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Garden Update: Companion Planting, 4 Foot Tall Tom...

This year I decided to do something new in the garden. I planted corn earlier in the season in a large, circular, felt garden bag. Corn needs lots of ...
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Time to Start a Prayer Chain for Azalea Banks. She...

Honestly it breaks my heart that this woman’s tortured mental state is on full display for all the world to see. Now it looks like Azalea Banks ...
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Asian Man Gives His Perspective On Dating Black Wo...

Hi Christelyn,   I hope this message finds you well.  My name is Tim and I recently saw a Youtube video you had posted wherein you interviewed ...
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Smooth, Pore-Less Looking Skin, Naturally!

  June is National Acne Awareness Month. I remember when acne had such a hold on me that it affected my confidence. It even affected the types of...
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Happy #LovingDay! Check Me Out at the #MixedRemixe...

Yesterday’s Mixed Remixed Festival a blast. Got to meet so many gorgeous and beautifully blended families. I spoke to a packed room of people di...
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QOTW: “My HIV Positive Best Friend Keeps Hav...

The Question: “I have been having an issue that I can’t seem to figure out a solution for even though it should be common sense for a pers...
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OMG…Summer Floaties on FLEEK!!!

My brother and his wife and son came down for Maxi’s graduation and we were in the thick of a heat wave. Good lawd…all we could do was be ...
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Breukelen Bleu Gives Insight into the Dark Side of...

    You’re heard the lighter, flowery side of the feminine power we can access, now get ready for the darker side. https://www.youtube...
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Dear Natural Cosmetics Companies, Please Acknowled...

Dear Natural Cosmetics Companies Who Think Only White Women Want to Buy Their Wares, For a variety of reasons related to concerns about my health and ...
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21, Pregnant with Second Child, Wants to Swirl?!

This letter appeared in my inbox: Hi, I’m a 21 year old black female who swirled once when I was in high school and became pregnant by the white...
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