Hilarious Teachable Moment from Matthew Hussey Moc...

First, I’m not even going to give a set up this video from relationship coach, Matthew Hussey. There is no intro needed.   After listening ...
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LMAO!! Chescaleigh Does Hilarious Holiday Song tha...

We love you, Chesca!! And YESSS to the IR flow happening there…;-)  ...
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Mermaid Eyes for the Brown Girl

Everyone on Pinterest and Instagram is all over the mermaid look, because make up companies can come up with a dreamy, aquamarine shade that looks lik...
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On Pleasing the BC: Damned if We Do…Damned i...

This post is not for the regulars. Just like I point out the good, I’m going to point of the bad. Not just bad, but utterly horrible. I was sent...
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Why the “Fetishizing” Argument is Such...

It has to be said. The whole concept of the mass hysteria of black female “fetishization” is a psychological tactic that is being used to ...
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Open Thread: What Went Wrong In Paris?

Like everyone else, my husband and I watched in horror as the news about the coordinated terrorist attacks in Paris unfurled. It’s the worst att...
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It’s About the Culture Part II: ‘White...

The video interview that I did with Angel Ramirez-Jordan this week was insightful content, as long as you skip the comments section. No one complaine...
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Is it the Culture or the Color that’s Turnin...

  We’ve talked a lot about preferences vs. IR via serendipity. Some of us have always dated interracially and have a certain “type...
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QOTW: Sometimes, He’s Just an A**hole, Girl.

The Question: I’m struggling in how to cope in a marriage where I hear racial prejudice and insults. My husband is white, I am African American....
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My Skin Care Regimen…Best Skin of My Life

In case you haven’t noticed the new advertisement on the upper right hand corner of the blog, I thought it was befitting fro me to FINALLY tell ...
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Rainbeau Asks, Are Women of Color Into the Occult?

Got this interesting question from someone on our fan page: Hey everyone, I asked this in another group and didn’t really get much feedback; so ...
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Aw! The Top 10 Interracial Proposals on You Tube!

You’re going to love this!  ...
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Sephora Holiday Haul: “One for You, Two for ...

  There’s no question that the BEST time to buy cosmetics is between November and January. Why? Because the gift sets offered have pretty s...
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Why Are Trolls Afraid of Me Working With Angel Ram...

Geezus lawd this man is fine. And!!! He loves him some black women. And he’s not shy about saying it. Not so much for IR, because he’s kin...
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