Heard of Miliani Eyeshine Metallic Eye Color?

I recently discovered Milani…well, that’s not exactly true. I’ve seen it at the drug stores, but mostly ignored it. I did make a not...
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QOTW: “My Boyfriend Has Never Witnessed Raci...

The Question: Hello: My name is “T.” I got your email from a your YouTube video: Should Black Women Marry Up. I am a black woman in an in...
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Amazing First Yield in the Summer Garden!

We came back from a family vacation to the Poconos to find that our garden exploded. This was, by far, the biggest harvest I’ve gotten thus far....
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Challenge to the Hoteps: Celebrate This Woman! Mak...

This woman right here. That black community STAYS telling us we ain’t worth sh%t. We are less than. Everything is our fault. This right here is ...
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My Response to Critics of the Charleston Video Cou...

A race hustler used commentary I made on how interracial couples can communicate their feelings about racially-fueled tragedies without minimizing the...
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Five Minute Jane Iredale Look for Beauty on the Go

One of my favorite things to do is sit down in front of my make up mirror and do my makeup, and I really don’t mind how long  it takes, because...
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Marry Down Costs Educated Women $25K a Year. But E...

Black Enterprise recently reported on a study that suggested that black women who marry down–unequally educationally and financially–are ...
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Humid Proof Updos on You East Coast and Southern L...

I recently vacationed with my family in the Pennsylvania mountains. And while it’s undeniably beautiful, the East Coast is humid as all heck! Si...
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Blast from the Past: How Has Black Women’s O...

A fan found an article written in Essence magazine in 1999, exploring black women’s attitudes about interracial dating. You have to read. Then s...
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Surprise! Loving Day Video Recap is Full of Those!

Last week, Beyond Black & White and InterracialDatingCentral.com celebrated Loving Day at the Mixed/Remixed festival in Downtown Los Angeles at th...
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Stuff You Should Know About Your Online Dating Pro...

  Before I go into this, I just have to give an FYI…I did the following profile critique to use as an example, so please…don’t ...
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Damn, She’s Fine, and She’s Mine!

  I marvel at all my kids. I do. There’s something unique and wonderful and amazing about each of them. But…this one right here…...
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Even When I Do Garden Videos, I Can’t Win.

I push interracial relationships. I should just STFU about it. I hate black men. I’m desperate. I’m an inposter. I’m an enemy to BWE...
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Should the Charleston Hate Crime Keep Black Women ...

  This morning, when I learned of the church shooting in Charleston, I observed several women make these comments: –“ You know with ...
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