Video: Five Reasons Nobody Wants a Black Woman!

Take a look…you’ll probably get a kick out of it. It’s my attempt to disrupt all the hate-filled, anti-black woman screeds on You Tu...
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Friday Funny: I Was Robbed by Ghetto Birds!

I was just minding my own business having lunch at the Historic Mission Inn in Riverside yesterday, and look…          ...
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‘Ratchet’ Doesn’t Happen in a Bu...

A fan just shared this with me…it’s unbelievable. But read closely and you’ll see that these events don’t happen in a bubble. ...
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OMG…”Scandal-ishous” Wedding!

All you ‘Olitz’ fans out there might not ever see the fictional couple tie the knot, but drown yourself in the fantasy of this couple, who...
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Beauty Tuesdays: New You Tube Beauty Channel, MAC ...

Shea Moisture continues to delight with product after quality product, and the newest expansion (a least it’s new for me) of the Jamaican Black ...
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QOTW: Twenty-Something I.T. Girl’s Swirling ...

Got this message today from a fan… Here is my question for you and your readers. I am a 22 black female from the suburbs of New York who just gr...
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Take That, Haters! BB&W ‘Circle of Supp...

If you’ve been on the interracial dating pages on Facebook, you’ve probably run across this haterade:   People can be so cruel on the...
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Conservative White Men Married to Black Women Soun...

People should really do their homework when they come for this community, because I find that you folks are truly galvanized to protect what’s y...
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WTF? Worst and Most Racist Interview Ever!!

Yesterday I was invited to do an interview for some wacky, right-wing, conservative sock puppet for Sean Hannity named Jesse Peterson. Worst. Intervie...
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Vintage Never Gets Old…Shabby Apple Pinup Lo...

It’s been a while since I sang the praises of Shabby Apple, a collection of vintage dresses that puts the sexy in classy. I love the look of the...
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Beauty Tuesday: Easy Combo That Makes Skin Look So...

Achieving a dewy look can be a challenge, especially if you suffer from T-zone syndrome like I do. There hasn’t been one single magic-bullet for...
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What Skiing in Big Bear Taught Me About Interracia...

This weekend was enlightening on so many levels. While me and the kids learned to ski for the first time, hubby was out on the highest mountain. I was...
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Don’t You Just Love it When Racists Slip? Fo...

Someone sent me this link and I thought it was a joke. I mean, in this day and age, when interracial and intercultural relationships are at the highes...
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Reader Weighs In: Wife vs. ‘Wifey’

I got this letter from a reader the other day, and it was so impactful, I had to cut and paste just as is! It also goes along with my video commentary...
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