A youthful look is a minimalist look. That means no outrageous falsies with clumps of glue with an overdose of black eyeliner and clumpy mascara. The look of a strung out heroin addict only works well for skinny white chicks in the fashion magazines. Want you own long, thick lashes? Add a lash lengthening conditioner to your night time beauty routine. There a lot of products that make the claim to grow your lashes, I’ve only used one that actually worked and didn’t need a prescription was Neulash, but at $150 a pop, it’s pricey. But…it worked for me. Try a conditioning mascara if that’s too steep a price. You’ll get no judgement from me.