Some Serious Baby-Bumpin’! Halle Berry Steps Out, Very...

Check out your girl, Halle Berry out on the town with Nahla Aubrey. According to reports, the new wife of “The Squinter” is due any day. All I can say is, I hate her for looking that good right before childbirth. I was waddling like a walrus starting at six months. The lady even does…

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Lormarie on the ‘Muzzling’ of Black Women...

I’ve been on a number of different forums where an interracially married black woman speaks of the hostility she faces from blacks, men in parti...

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Monday is Punday….5...

Monday-Punday #5 Once again, from the noisome, ichor-besmirched depths of SirLoinDeBeef’s perverse depravity, comes these droppings of literary ...

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Kerry Washington: The Swirl Marriage that Never Was....

So I’m reading the October issue of Glamour magazine, which I couldn’t resist buying because Kerry Washington was on the cover when I̵...

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Hey Chicas!! I’m Talking to You! Time to Wrap it Up!...

I don’t need to bring up the stats, but I will. The black community has an 80% out-of-wedlock rate. Black women are infected disproportionately ...

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How to Wear Colored Eyeliner Like a Grown Up…...

Ever want to wear colored eyeliner but have no idea how to wear it without looking like a 1980’s reject? Me too. But in some ways, wearing eyeli...

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An Announcement! Toni Matthews, “Thriving” Edito...

This is promotion is a long time coming, and definitely deserved. BB&W has appointed Toni Matthews (Toni M) editor of our “Thriving” s...

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Video: Matthew Hussey Schools You On How to Meet 10 Guys a W...

I can’t tell you how many stories I get on email and via our fan page from women who want to meet quality men but don’t or won’t do ...

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#Throwback Thursday: Martin...

Martin was the name of a comedic sitcom that aired for five seasons from 1992 to 1997. The eponymous show was named after comedian Martin Lawrence, wh...

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Stuff I Like: Wen Fall Apple Spice...

I know a lot of you naturalistas and relaxed heads love ya’ll some WEN products, so when the folks there sent me a stash of their seasonal formu...

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Where Were You On 9/11?...

I still remember as clear as day where I was and what I was doing when I heard the news about the horrible terrorist attacks on 9/11/01.  I was at ho...

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Are They Kidding? The New Meme to Trap and Trick Black Women...

Just when I think I’ve heard it all, then comes some new fresh hell to guilt and scare black women out of swirling. This one comes from a group ...

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Unapologetic Swirler Zoe Saldana Gets Hitched!...

This just in from US Weekly: Zoe Saldana off the market! The Blood Ties actress and beau MarcoPerego secretly tied the knot in London in June, Us Week...

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Is $15 An Hour Unreasonable Pay for Flipping Burgers?...

Let me just fast forward to the answer of the question in the title of this post: No, I don’t think $15 an hour is unreasonable pay for flipping...

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You CRAY, Mayor Bloomberg! Showing off your beautiful interr...

Now that Bill de Blasio may actually be close to winning his campaign for Mayor of New York, some of his detractors are starting to let their claws co...

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To Eat or Not to Eat? New BB&W Health Editor Tackles th...

By Ashley Harvard, BB&W Health and Wellness editor We’ve all been there before. You’re nearly 15 minutes into your morning workout, pounding t...

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New POF Survey Supports What I’ve Been Saying: Where Y...

If you live in California, turns out that living near the water gives you better relationship prospects than living inland, according to a survey by P...

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Monday-Punday #4...

    Yet another bloated bubble of negative creativity, arising from the primordial ooze within the mind of SirLoinDeBeef.   There once was a lady o...

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You’re Wrong Ms. Underwood, We Do Want Kinky Hair!...

  Every single person in our society is told that they must wear presentable hairstyles. Nothing wrong with that at all. The problem is, the blac...

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Good Wins Again! My Final Word on Internet Trolls…...

      This weekend was FABULOUS, much to the chagrin of a rabid internet troll who inadvertently made our BB&W fan page legend. Bec...

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A US President Wants to Bomb a Middle Eastern Country? Heard...

Something told me that awarding Barack Obama with a Nobel Peace Prize barely 10 months into his first term as President was a bit premature. According...

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Namaste Your Way to Sexy: September is National Yoga Month!...

September is National Yoga Month, and now’s the time to jump on the bandwagon, because yoga studios all over the country are offering FREE YOGA ...

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3 Fall Trends that are right now…...

Fall is just a few weeks away and for some the anxiety of preparing our wardrobes for the cooler months is becoming overwhelming. Of course, that is w...

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Smiling is Only the Beginning…Other Get-the-Guy Moves ...

If you're planning to go to happy hour tonight on the slim chance you might meet Mr. Potential, you probably already know that you can't be hiding beh...

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Kola Boof: “I Never Loved Osama Bin Laden”...

Never to be outdone and never soft-spoken, the illustrious for some, the infamous for others, Kola Boof....

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Reality TV Star Evelyn Lozada on Why She Married an Abuser: ...

Now I know that many of the BB&W regulars HATE reality TV shows featuring black women who aren't afraid to turn on the ratchet--namely, shows like VH1...

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Ah Hell–Time to Rip Off Someone Else’s Wig: Seco...

Another truly what-the-cuss......

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Gratuitous Photo of the Day...

I'm finally getting serious about my photography and am entering into the wily world of Photoshop and this is the first thing I've done I'm happy with...

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Black Women Suspicious When Desired yet Begging to be Desire...

Black Women Suspicious When Someone Desires Them I just read this post on Clutch about a new dating site called I Love Black Women.  According to Clu...

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