Hidden Relationships: Are You in One?...

Hidden Relationships: Are You in One? Written By Saran Lawson Do you suspect that you’re someone’s secret? You’re tucked away in a proverbial closet that you didn’t agree to be in. This explains your attendance to today’s TED talk. There are several reasons you could be peeking through a cracked closet door. I found myself in that…

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Wait…Issa Rae is ENGAGED?!...

Asa runs a YouTube channel called The Mellow Lyfe. Check it out here. Issa Rae is engaged, and her fiancé is not an Asian man, presumably. Why does t...

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Things to Give Up for Lent and Beyond...

Written by Nicole J. Whether or not you celebrate Lent, the 40-day period is a good way of refocusing your goals you set at the beginning of the year....

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Don’t Miss This…LIVE INFO WEBINAR on The Pink Pi...

TODAY, you will get all the tea! You’ll hear and see the details of the master course, hear the testimonials of real women who have enrolled and...

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Just In Time for St. Paddy’s: The No Hangover Rules...

The No Hangover Rules Written by Saran Lawson I’m no doctor. I just have a few years of experience under my belt that can help with those nights you...

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St. Paddy’s Day Special – Where to meet Irish Me...

Written by Nicole J. Aidan Turner, Robert Sheehan, Cillian Murphy, Michael Fassbender, (Northern Irish) Jamie Dornan…Irish men are definitely so...

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What About Your Friends? When Your Friend Is Part of “The ...

New relationships bring out a plethora of feelings. There’s the giddiness. There are the extended glances at one another. There are the hours and ho...

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The Miseducation of Azriel Clary: The Gayle King Interview...

Written By Saran Lawson Do you remember when you were in your 20’s? I do and I can tell you confidently in my early 20’s, I knew nothing. I’ve...

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Five Things Black Women Should Never Do at Work Events...

Ah…the things I’ve learned since leaving the corporate world behind. The mistakes listed in this video are actual things that I did and sh...

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Lessons to learn from Tamron Hall’s Baby Announcement...

Written by Nicole J. There are many benefits in waiting to start a family. Finances are more likely to be in order. Debts are likely to be significant...

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R Kelly Did an Interview and My Eye’s Are Still Rollin...

  Written by Saran Lawson You guys (sighs). I am so tired of this media circus concerning R Kelly. At this point just let the court handle it. I&...

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Five Mantras to Live By in 2019...

Written by Nicole J. It is still pretty early in 2019, and while the New Year New Me attitude may not be as new; it is never too late to reinvent and ...

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R. Kelly Was Bailed Out By A Black Woman, Surprising No One...

Written by Nicole J. It was recently reported that a black woman by the name of Valencia Love posted the $100,000 bail for Robert Kelly. Safe to say, ...

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Tamron Hall Is a Stealthy Swirler of the Highest Degree!!...

Tamron Hall can keep a hell of a secret. In one fell swoop, she announced that she is eight months pregnant at age 48, and is interracially married. O...

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Black Women, We’re Light Years Behind the Curve....

It’s Time to Get Serious About Your Future, Sis. This afternoon I had been feeling a bit tired from a very busy week planning activities around ...

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You Won’t Believe What White Men are Saying About Marr...

Check out this video and see why more and more non-black men are finding love with black women....

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Black Women, Stop Broadcasting Foolishness!...

Written by Nicole J. We black women are beautiful. We age more slowly, our natural hair grows towards the sky, and at our best, other women buy the fe...

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Opinion: Pro-Blacks Shouldn’t Date or Marry White...

Written by Asa, creator of the YouTube channel, The Mellow Lyfe I met my White [then] boyfriend now husband during the same year the Black Lives Matte...

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Video: Five Things to Help Black Women Be More Culturally Fl...

Check out my latest YouTube video…and while you’re at it, make sure you subscribe!...

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BB&W Interview spotlight: Morshe and James...

Morshe and James have graciously taken time to interview with me, all the way from the beautiful state of Hawaii. I hope you enjoy hearing their story...

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No More “Mr. Wrong” for Mary J. Blige...

Written by Nicole J. Legendary singer Mary J. Blige has recently taken on a “No Kendu” attitude (get it?!) when it comes to dating men who make le...

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So…I Went to the Intercontinental Barclay and…...

Ah, New York. The sights, the sounds, the hotels. You literally have too many choices to stay, so I’m going to try and make it easy for you. Two wor...

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Thirty Years of Love and Family in Canada…An Interracial M...

Beyond Black and White Interview Spotlight: Jasmine and Lorne This is an interview with Jasmine, who shares about her 30 year interracial marriage in ...

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Where to Meet Men in Uniform...

Written by Nicole J. Valentine’s Day is over, and if you’ve found yourself without an arrow from that baby cherub, why not shoot your shot on your...

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The HGTV Standard: Observations From An Evening of Reality T...

I love House Hunters and Log Cabin Living. I like watching people walk through homes and point out what suits them and what doesn’t. I’m also ...

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Redefining Valentine’s Day with Loved Ones...

Redefining Valentine’s Day with Loved Ones Written by Saran Lawson    Valentine’s Day is around the corner. All over the United States, ther...

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Healthy Nail Care Is Self-Care! ??...

Ah, the nail salon. For some it’s a (bi)weekly ritual that is a two-fold source of a confidence boost and self-care/relaxation necessity. I was one ...

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Places to Meet That Nerdy Guy This Valentine’s Day...

Written by Nicole J. So it’s pretty much a couple hours until Valentine’s Day: the greeting cards are out in full force, the candy aisle has been ...

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Breaking Up is Hard To Do: Ending Unofficial Relationships...

Breaking Up is Hard To Do: Ending Unofficial Relationships Written by Saran Lawson Ending a relationship is one of the hardest things you have to do. ...

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When The Stars Go Blue: How Your Taste In Music Affected You...

The other night, I was lying in bed listening to “When The Stars Go Blue” by Tim McGraw. It’s one of my favorite songs even though I don’t usu...

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