QOTW: “Should I Stop IR Because Of Bad Sex?”...
This was quite the interesting Question of the Week: Hello. I hope this correspondence finds you well. Longtime follower of your blog and vlogs but first time ever attempting to ask a question. It’s on the personal side. However it’s been eating at me for a few weeks now and I need to ask someone…
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Compare How this U.S. Woman Got Rejected with My Experience ...
A video appeared on my Facebook feed yesterday that nearly brought me to tears. It showed a young, pretty black woman recounting her experience at a c...
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Patreon Perk: Meet the Lovely Kay!...
I have a pretty cool perk for my $20 pledges on Patreon that help support this blog. They get featured here on the blog and since Kay is the first, I ...
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Why Are Black Women So Insecure?...
Why are black women so insecure? It’s a comment often used to criticize and marginalize us. The question is thrown around without the benefit ...
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Get that Glow with Tarte Clay Stick Foundation!...
It may look easy, but prepping for videos takes a ton of time. My sisters expect my makeup to be on point, but I’m just not into that #MAClife a...
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Black Women Have “Bad PR.” What One Commenter Sa...
Sometimes, you get a comment that’s so golden, it needs to be it’s own blog post. This came from a subscriber commenting on yesterday̵...
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QOTW: “I Feel Threatened By Asian Women.”...
Dear Christelyn, I first off would love to thank you for channel! I wish there was a woman like you when I was a young girl. you embody everything I...
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The ONE Thing That Transformed My Body in my 40’s...
Yesterday was my 44th birthday. I can’t believe it. I remember when a woman in her 40’s was on her way to being over the hill, less desire...
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New Study Says Biracial Children Test as Well as White Child...
Much to the chagrin of white supremacists, it looks like children from multi-racial backgrounds test just as well in reading, writing, math and scienc...
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Insta Couples We’re Loving This Week!...
These folks have their own You Tube channel. Check them out! Getting ice cream with the kids. #swirl #swirling #teamswirl #swirlnation #swirllife #lov...
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Older Black Woman, Younger Non-Black Man…Can it Work?...
Lots of fans have asked me to address this, and at long last, here it is! https://youtu.be/jyW693SU1OM It’s a new world, folks. Follow Christely...
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Phthalate in Mac and Cheese…Another Reason to Dump Fak...
A recent independent study conducted by the Coalition for Safer Food Processing and Packaging on 40 different brands indicated that phthalate in mac a...
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The Inner Conflict of Loving Music that Marginalizes Me...
Last week my crew and I headed to the Salsa Festival on St. Claire’s in Toronto to take in the local ethnic flavor. I was sitting in the backsea...
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Three Reasons Your Online Dating Profile Sucks....
I get so many private notes from fans about how they’ve tried EVERYTHING and STILL can get bites on online dating sites. Since it’s becomi...
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More Interracial Dating in Toronto: Do THIS to Get More Atte...
As I’m learning more and more about Canada, I learning a few things about the social culture there. While interracial dating in Toronto is so co...
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Very Smart Brothers Addresses “Negro Bed Wenching̶...
Negro Bed Wenching. It’s a term that’s been used in recent years to disparage black women like us who date interracially. But like the wor...
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Five Reasons American Black Women NEED to Travel to Toronto...
As I conclude my first trip for our Swirl Around the World travel tour to Toronto, I go home a changed woman. This experience has truly enabled me to ...
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What I Won’t Leave the Country Without…...
I’m packing, and no lie, my toiletries are going to be what puts me over the weight threshold. But I will not, ABSOLUTELY NOT, leave my tarteis...
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Swirl Around the World: Day Zero...
It has begun. Finally, after months of planning, we’re on our first stretch of our Swirl Around the World Tour. Check out Day Zero: https://www....
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Getting Fat? Sometimes, Black Women are Obese Because of Hor...
It’s no secret that that most black women are obese because many don’t eat healthy and don’t move enough. Even a recent study state...
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Bachelorette: She Dumped Him Because He Would Have Never Dat...
Alas, there were new episodes of The Bachelorette this week, but that’s good for me, because I’ve been running behind, what with all the p...
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Countdown…Toronto! Beauty & the Bear, Kay Love, a...
OMG I’m nervous, excited and so busy I can barely think straight, because on Wednesday I’m taking a trip with all of you to Toronto, for t...
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Colorism: Are You Worried About Hating Your Biracial Girls?...
Interesting conversation I and Breukelen Bleu were having on the YouTube channel about some dark-skinned black women worried about hating their biraci...
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Shonda Rhimes Shocked…SHOCKED that Weight Matters...
In a recent article on LOVEBSCOTT, mega-successful producer, Shonda Rhimes says, “NOW people saw me as a PERSON,” when she lost a substan...
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Can We Talk About Bladder Leaks for Black Women, Ladies? ...
This is a sponsored conversation written by me on behalf of Always Discreet. The opinions and text are all mine. I was excited when Always Discreet co...
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The Four Letter Word that Makes Your Online Profile Irresist...
I get countless letters from young women who claim to have terrible luck when it comes to online dating. What’s puzzling is, upon review of thei...
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Revealed! Rihanna’s Make Out Session with Billionaire ...
Looks like another international billionaire is appreciating the company of a black woman. Is this becoming a thing? Looks like the guy blowing up yes...
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Report: Serena Williams Set to Wed Alex Ohanian This Fall...
In a vivid and revealing article published in Vanity Fair magazine, Serena Williams recounts the early days of how she met her fiancé, Alexis Ohanian...
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Is Martina Big Making a Huge Mockery of Black Women?...
Chemical injections that mimic melanin, “afro” hair extensions, plastic surgery for rounder, fuller facial features, butt injections. Mart...
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Amazing Produce You Can Grow in a Bag!...
Sure; those fancy raised beds you see on HGTV shows are aspirational, but what will you use in the meantime? Why wait for your boo to get to the ̶...
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