QOTW: “Is The State of Marriage Different for Black Wo...
The Question: Hi Chris!! I know everyone starts their messages/questions like this but I really do appreciate your videos and I appreciate them as someone who dates open to all different types of men but most importantly because of how much you uplift and validate black womens’ amazingness! You always say that your #1 priority…
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Open Thread: Do You Strive to Be ‘Hot’ or ‘...
Close your eyes. Okay; don’t close your eyes because if you do you won’t be able to read this. But just take a moment to picture a really ...
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Why Rachel Lindsey and Newsweek Show That “Swirling...
I wrote Swirling: How to Date, Mate and Relate, Mixing Race, Culture and Creed back in 2012. Upon it’s publish date, it was met with excitement,...
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3 Detox Secrets to Get You Skin Sexy and Glowing for Summer!...
Are you ready to for all the skin you’re going to show this summer? Are you working to look like this? Then you better get going, ...
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Open Thread: First Impressions of “Bachelorette”...
Last night we had a live hangout to watch the historic premiere of the first black “Bachelorette.” My first impression is…it’s...
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Black Women: Smart About Education, Dumb About Marriage...
Before you read this, I know that some of you might be offended. I don’t care. It’s time black women separate by two classes--the savvies ...
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5 Insta Couples We’re Loving This Week!...
We’re loving these couples we’ve found on Instagram…be sure to share your favorites for consideration in the upcoming weeks! Have a ...
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New Research About Interracial Marriage May Surprise You...
The Pew Research Center released some interesting data one month before we celebrate 50 years of legalized interracial marriage in the United States. ...
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[Video] You Won’t Believe the Choices the New “B...
We are cautiously optimistic about the first black “Bachelorette,” because many of us were worried that the producers would stick her with...
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Meet Me in Los Angeles at the Mixed/Remixed Festival on June...
Is it almost Loving Day again?! Yes!! I’m planning on spending the entire day (June 10) at the Mixed/Remixed Festival in Los Angeles, California...
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My Daughter, Doll Choices, and Colorism....
My mother and I have an arrangement of sorts when it comes to Mother’s Day. On alternate years, we trek up to the high desert for a two hour dri...
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Dating Darwinism in the Looming Labor Apocalypse...
Only the strongest survive. We live in a computerized society. Some of you have never known a world in which there were no computers and cell phones. ...
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American Politics Got You Wanting to Defect? Join Us Tonight...
Update to update update join us tonight at 7PM PST 13/05/2017 Update: we do apologise but due to technical and family obligations beyond our control ...
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The TRUTH About Interracial Relationships...
Yesterday when I read an article on Vogue.com called, The Truth About Interracial Relationships, and saw that it was written by a black woman, I admit...
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Check Out This AMAZING Convo with Breukelen Bleu and the Kis...
Continuing the conversation about Who’s Responsible for the Natural Hair Movement, plain-talking Breukelen Bleu and I hashed this issue out on Y...
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Rant: Who’s Responsible for the Natural Hair Movement?...
Last week I decided to join a natural hair group that best identifies my hair texture…4 something. It has hundreds of thousands of members, so I...
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7 Natural Body-Beautifying Products Every Black Woman Should...
https://vimeo.com/216610141 Click the “heart” icons for links to the products we love! Note: some of the links are affiliates; the items c...
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Five Insta Couples We’re Loving This Week!...
“Nature always wears the colours of the spirit.” . We found the perfect spot at Chapmans Peak (one of our favourite spots in Cape Town) th...
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Boston…Sigh. Another Racist Incident at Fenway Stadium...
Boston continues to be an enigma to me. It’s one of the most liberal-voting cities in the United States, home of some of the best colleges and u...
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This Text Exchange With My Daughter Sums Up the “Miss....
If you haven’t caught wind of it yet, there’s a big controversy about the winner of “Miss Black University of Texas” pa...
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Facebook to Ad 3,000 Employees to Fight Violence and Harassm...
After a slurry of suicides and murders being broadcast on Facebook LIVE, founder and CEO just announced the company plans to hire 3,000 more employees...
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Al Jazeera, PLEASE Cover the Black Gender War Like You Cover...
A fan of mine sent me a pretty shocking video of a problem little known–South Korea is in the throws of a full on gender war.The characters are ...
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Serena and Alex Slay at The Met...
The New York Metropolitan museum has some fancy schancy event that attracts celebrities dressed like they’re going to the Oscars. The rich green...
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Surprising “Swirl Friendly” Monterey, California...
Last week I took a road trip up to Monterey, California, a small bedroom town about an hour or so outside of San Francisco. I stayed at the Monterey P...
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My Low Carb Indulgence…...
…and it was delicious. Grass-fed beef, nitrate-free hickory smoked bacon, some cheese, all wrapped up in a Swiss chard from the garden. Now of c...
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Get Strapped: Gun Ownership Surges with Black Women...
Breitbart, of all places, is reporting that gun ownership and classes amongst black women is surging, especially in places like Atlanta, Cincinnati, ...
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Five Insta Couples We’re Loving This Week!...
Serena’s tennis coach! He has amazing taste! Happy birthday my love @adaobilu ???#birthdaydinnertogether A post shared by PATRICKMOURATOGLOU (@p...
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Caption This Photo....
As I run hills, do squats and lunges, I look at photos like this and wonder…is it really that serious? And…let’s be “real̶...
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Finally There’s a Name for Birth Control Sabotage̷...
This from a recent Columbia Journal of Gender and Law: Nonconsensual condom removal during sexual intercourse exposes victims to physical risks of pre...
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Three Ways to Improve Your Overall Health Without Completely...
Many people make New Year’s resolutions to get healthier so that they can live as long as they possibly can. Many people fail at changing their life...
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