What I Saw in a Temecula Asian Market Showed Me How Black Pe...
This past weekend I went to a large Asian-owned grocery store here in town. I hesitate going there most of the time, because, well…the seafood section makes the whole building smell kinda funny. I went there after going to my favorite garden center to get a bag of potatoes for $.88–but not to cook…I bought…
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How Gardening Can Get You More Dates!...
People might think gardening is something grandmas do, and that nothing about the practice can help someone single get some love. I bet to differ! You...
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Want a Date for Halloween? Here’s How You Can Get One....
It’s 27 days until Halloween, and there’s a very good chance you might get a date if you join or update your online dating profile with t...
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Are YOU Willing to be the Sacrifice to “Save” Yo...
I received this long-assed comment from a viewer of my You Tube channel by a man named Darryl. Check it out. I am among those who believe we should sa...
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The ONE Thing You Can Never Lose in a Relationship Is…...
Respect. That is, your self respect, and his respect for you. Because once you’ve lost it, it’s not likely you’ll get it back. IR...
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Political Open Thread: Who Do You Think Won the Debate, Trum...
Let me first preface by saying that I’m NOT excited about either candidate. But in my opinion, there is one candidate–Donald Trump–w...
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Study Indicates Some People Dishonest About their Approval o...
Most white Americans are doing a good job telling pollsters what they think is politically correct when it comes to reporting their approval of interr...
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Wendy Williams’ Advice to Mary J. Blige: “Find a...
After the failed marriage of Mary J. Blige–the queen of struggle ballads herself–talk show host, Wendy Williams suggested that Mary should...
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3 Safety Tips For Single Women...
It can be exciting to be a single woman. Perhaps you’ve got your first apartment or home after college. Perhaps a relationship fell apart and y...
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That Moment When You Know Your Makeup is Poppin’…...
Even with a cold and fuzzy brain, I couldn’t help but pat myself on the back on the makeup look I put together for my latest live hangout with a...
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Video: Are Most Black Women Clueless About Femininity?...
Constance Dunn, author of Everyday Glamour, came on to my You Tube channel to discuss femininity as a tool of power in the real world–from work ...
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Tragic Death of Jose Fernandez Highlights the Necessity of N...
This morning, I read the tragic news that baseball Player, José Fernandez, 24, died in a boat accident. His death comes on the heals of his announce...
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Dear Iyanla: We No Longer CARE Why Black Men Won’t Dat...
Last night I caught wind of an interview Iyanla Vanzant did with three black men of various age groups (20’s, 30’s, 40’s) who refuse...
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My 30-Day Protective Styling Regimen…You Want In?...
Hello, ladies! School is in and it’s time for my mane to go into hibernation. I’m trying to get some growth and minimize breakage for a bi...
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Are You Here for Michele’le and Her Side of the Story ...
Lifetime Movie Network will premiere Surviving Compton, a biopic of singer, Michele’le’s experiences being affiliated with NWA and married...
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Video: The Pros and Cons of Dating Mexican Men...
While in Mexico, I used the opportunity to interview five different Mexican men on how they felt about interracial dating, particularly black women. T...
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And the Biggest Open Opponents to Black Women Finding Love w...
Other black women. When I heard about the photo that launched a thousand comments on the Carol’s Daughter Facebook fan page and heard about all ...
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The Final Day of Our Mexican Excursion…?...
All good things must come to an end, and it’s time for me and my husband’s foot to go back home. I have to say this was one of the most en...
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Christelyn’s Vacation with Her Husband’s Foot...
Today was a total chill day. Worked out at the gym, yoga by the ocean, day at the spa. Oh! And my feet got eaten by live fish. https://youtu.be/ddVIia...
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Eyeliner Tricks Every Girl Should Know...
How to Be a Pro at Eyeliner! Whether you want to create a basic wing eye or dramatize it the heavens with eyeliner, here are 10 useful tips that w...
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Christelyn’s Puerto Vallarta Vacation w/ Her Husband&#...
Hubby and I are on a much needed vacation to Puerto Vallarta. This is my fourth visit to Mexico, and so far I’m thinking this is one of my favor...
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Christelyn Travels to Puerto Vallarta with Her Husband’...
Funny…so weird that some folks really think my husband doesn’t exist… And I guess the conspiracy theories will continue to run rampa...
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Food to Get ‘That Glow’ Spriralized Zucchini wit...
One of the most rewarding parts of growing my own food is being able to enjoy the bounty from garden to kitchen immediately. The benefit is obvious...
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Yes; I Know Tika Sumpter is Pregnant. Why I’m Not Cele...
When I heard the news that actress, Tika Sumpter was expecting her first child, I was genuinely happy for her. I have followed her career since she fi...
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Leroy Reemerges to Interview the “Chief Bed Wench̶...
Sometimes you have to laugh to keep from crying. Other times you laugh so hard you cry. You decide which one is which. Sharing is caring! https://yout...
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Look of the Week: Sexy, Sultry, Frost [Video Tutorial]...
https://youtu.be/VVal4SvLB4Y Cocoa Pigmented Bronzer – Cocoa Glow – $35.00 100% Natural bronzer will give you a warm, beautiful, su...
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Open Thread: What Red Flags Have YOU Ignored that Could Help...
Let’s be honest we’ve all made some major boo-boos in our lives when it comes to relationships. Some of them are so horrendous we shudder ...
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Throw Your Support Behind Issa Rae’s “Insecure&#...
I’m so proud of Issa Rae. I remember when I discovered her web series, Awkward Black Girl and knew I had to meet her so we could feature her in ...
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QOTW: “Is He Doing THIS Because I’m Black?”...
The Question (This one is a VERY teachable moment. Buckle up.) Hello! I’m a huge fan and have been following your site, and you in general for a...
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Time for Black Women to Fight Back Against Online Bullying!...
For any of you online for any amount of time and happen to fall into the rancid rabbit hole of black women hate videos from the He-Man Black Woman Hat...
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