“I Felt Something Inside Me Go Numb.” How Media ...

If there was ever any doubt that the message drilled into young impressionable black women about how we’re the most undesirable, undatable, and unlovable creatures to ever breath God’s air, this excerpt from a fan of my You Tube channel will cinch it for you. She’s 25, a self-proclaimed nerd, homebody, and struggling musician.  I…

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Heard of Dr. Pimple Popper? Gross! But…...

You want to, and you’re almost ashamed to admit it, but you can’t look away. Dr. Pimple Popper, aka Dr Pimple Popper, Dr Sandra Lee, takes...

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Our Favorite #BWWM Couples on Instagram...

Check this out for inspiration and #relationshipgoals Back at the 240th Marine Corps Ball. #Marines #MarineCorps #Oorah #Rah #Devildog #swirl #swirler...

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See Me “Naked” Plus a Freebie!...

Check out the new natural skin care products I’ve discovered and are using! So much goodness in them, without hard chemicals and additives that ...

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QOTW: Would You Date a 20 Year Old White Bisexual Male?...

The Question: Dear Chistelyn, I am a 20 year-old white male from New York and a junior in college. Since attending University and being exposed to peo...

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Home Made Anti-Breakage, Growth Stimulating Tonic...

I’ve had a continual struggle to find a leave in spray conditioner that was lightly moisturizing and wouldn’t weigh down my hair and make ...

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Open Thread: Do You Find This Offensive?...

Marlo Hampton, a former (?) RHOA cast member, wore a shirt that said “I love my redneck boyfriend” in the fashion and shape of the Confede...

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He-Man Woman Haters Redefine Definition of a Thug to Encompa...

I had an interesting weekend on my You Tube channel. You Tube is often rife with drama, and clans enjoy instigating online beefs, to which I generally...

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Review: 100% Pure Kelp & Mint Volumizing Shampoo &...

After learning about the class action lawsuit against WEN by Chaz Dean, from women who claim the ingredients cause them to lose gobs of hair, breakage...

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Video: What’s the Interracial Dating Scene Like for BW...

Lots of visuals on this! Check out what I discovered. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FohrBRCDbtA...

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What Do You Think of This Man’s Claims that Interracia...

Alon Ziv, author of Breeding Between the Lines: Why Interracial People are Healthier and More Attractive is on video supporting his book, in which he...

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The “Hautest” Plus Size Bridal & Honeymoon Lingerie...

Wedding season is here and so are the “hautest” styles of plus size bridal and honeymoon lingerie. Whether you’re a blushing bride who wants to ...

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No Organized Defense of Black Women Allows Sh%t Like This....

Sigh…when I saw this on my feed, I thought to myself, “how low will this clown show of an election season go? We have real issues to discu...

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Five Kissable Shades of Natural to Drive Them All Nuts...

When it comes to makeup there’s few things more impactful than lipstick; which is why I’m always on a quest to find shades that compliment...

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Health Alert: What Those Dark Spots on Your Face and Neck Co...

Last week I noticed a few comments on my “Coming Clean” video indicating that some of the women expressing worry when I mentioned that the...

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Why Do Black People Delight When a White Man Wrongs a Black ...

Before your read the letter of this woman, I want to discuss a phenomenon I often witness, when a certain group of black folks sour about black women ...

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Wedded Bliss…Corey and Cicely...

Meet Corey and Cicely, who got hitched in Las Vegas April 16, 2016. BB&W: How did you two meet? Cicely: Corey and I met at his previous job in Las...

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QOTW: “Should I Stay Friends w/ Someone Who Thinks IR ...

Got this note from a You Tube fan of mine… My take.. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ygRh64j5jyQ...

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Color U Bold: 5 Exciting New Beauty Launches that Just Happe...

  Today I wanted to share with you a couple of new launches that is making me Very Excited! My goal for this summer is to splurge a little bit on...

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White Hubby Says “Match Made in Heaven” Is Typic...

My husband knows I hate reality television. Like…ALL of it.It’s so far from real life–contrived conflicts and faux outrage. He watch...

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Just in Time for Sandals! 100% Pure Selling Polishes 50% Off...

Check out my stash of 100% Pure nail polishes! I’m about to go over yonder and get the rest of them TODAY, because they’re selling them fo...

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Calm Beauty: Why I Grow Chamomile...

Ever heard of a flower that smells like apples? Look no further than the fabulous chamomile plant, the Matricaria Chamomilla. And while it has a pre...

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Coming Clean: My Big Announcement!...

This may not be a surprise to most people who have been following my health journey throughout the years, but I want to make it formal. I’m offi...

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Breaking News! Mass Foot Shooting By Black Female West Point...

Sigh…it this isn’t one of the worst cases of foot-shooting by black women putting “the cause” before their personhood. These W...

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Why are We Still Worried About Who Black Men Date?!...

I ran across a video a student at Pace University did highlighting the trend of some black men openly proclaiming they would never date a black girl t...

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Carrie on, “Why Are You Still Single?”...

  Author, Carrie Thompson   A coworker asked me just that, a beautiful female account manager at the top floor of her Sony penthouse office in d...

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When Your Mother Doesn’t Make You Feel Like Celebratin...

It’s 1:41 AM, the early hours of Mother’s Day. While I should be excited about getting breakfast in bed and a day free of chores, I’...

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Battle of the Baby Bumps: Who’s Doing it Better, Janet...

Of course you knew we were going to report on news that Janet Jackson and Blak China are preggers with their respective partners. Janet, who is two we...

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Color U Bold: A Festival Glam Makeup Tutorial!...

  Today I wanted to share with you a fun and creative makeup tutorial especially if you are feeling like going bold for a day! This makeup look c...

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Ladies When You Enable Foolishness, It IS Your Fault....

Black women have had no shortage of outlets to discuss, hand-wring, and debate how and why black men have not, for some reason or another, failed a co...

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