Squat Update: Can You Do 200 or 2000 in a Day?...

When I saw the New York Post article about the two twins who do 2,000 squats a day and have a four-foot-circumferance ass, I thought to myself…whoa. Do I really want an ass that’s more inches than my six-year-old is tall? Nah…I’ll stick to my 200. Well mostly, 100. I’m seeing progress in that regard……

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“Flawless” Black Women are Dating “Average...

A well-known basher-of-black-women-for-coins recently generated this meme: Sounds like a lot of sour grapes to me. When I first read it, I couldn̵...

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Study: Junk Food Not Only Cause of Obesity...

Despite the knowledge of how damaging obesity is to the body, the rates continue to rise. And it’s not just us fat Americans, it’s quickly...

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Black & White and ‘Red’ All Over! Modcloth ...

I absolutely LOVE this look from ModCloth, one of my favorite classy, feminine vintage online stores. The newspaper print is of adorable little puppie...

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Destination gambling in various parts of the world ...

There’s not a lot that is finer than playing blackjack or poker in various destinations around the world as either a part of your holidays or as a h...

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Color U Bold: How to Detox Your Scalp!...

Have you ever heard of a scalp detox! I hadn’t either until I had a guest blogger on my blog talk about a Spring Hair Detox! I thought it was more f...

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Protected Species Vs. Non Protected Species...

God, I was rooting for Azealia Banks, really. She was so outspoken, and had a cute boyfriend. But I can not abide this latest debacle via Twitter this...

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WTF Mississippi Again?! Racist Landlord Gives IR Couple the ...

  Stuff like this affects us all. Racists don’t care what gender combo they discriminate against. Check out this married couple who got the...

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Sound Off! Are You Feeling Shea Moisture’s #BreaktheWa...

Shea Moisture, widely popular around these parts for their excellent hair care and beauty options for women of color, has recently launched the #Break...

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Yummy Color of the Day: “Spanish Rose and Midnight Blu...

Take a look at this amazing combo! I’m absolutely in love with “Spanish Rose,” a brick-red lippie from Au Naturale ($22). I combined...

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Black Women Living Well: My Hangout with Jamie and Niki...

I recently went to a meet up in Los Angeles where You Tube interracial family stars, Jamie and Niki and Gabe and Babe invited fans to hang out for a w...

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This is What Happens When Countries (and Communities) Devalu...

China and Japan are in a gender crisis. After decades of the “one child policy” in China and subsequent mass abortions and baby killings...

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Best Natural Beauty Products & Trends, 2016!...

I’m about to give you a serious health alert that all black women should heed. There are indeed harmful ingredients that are being added to our ...

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Pure Comedy: Christelyn Reads Mean Comments from You Tube!...

I get so many crazy notes on my You Tube channel, figured I might as well set it all to music. lol...

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QOTW: “Am I Too Young for Online Dating?”...

The Question: Hey Christleyn, First let me say thank you for all that you do. It’s been a long road for me to become fully comfortable with interrac...

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What the Blue Hell? Child Snatched from White Parents Becaus...

In a move that appears to be political correctness gone horribly, terribly wrong, social workers have torn a six-year old girl away from a loving fost...

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Actress Tatyana Ali Announces Pregnancy; Engagement...

Looks like Tatyana Ali, the little girl from the Fresh Prince of Bel Air, is all grown up and expecting a baby carriage…and a marriage. As repor...

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Break Into Spring with the Ultra-Feminine Look!...

I love spring. It give us the chance to mimic all the colors we see in nature in our makeup and dress. And even though I live in California, where you...

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Color U Bold: Orange Lipstick for every Skintone!...

  Today I wanted to share with you my growing love for Orange Lipstick! Colorful lipsticks can be a bit scary for women of darker complexions! Th...

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This ‘Justice Warrior’ Against Black Appropriati...

If you haven’t yet seen the video of the young black San Francisco State University student verbally and physically accosting a white male with ...

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Serious Question: Would You Date a ‘Wigger?’...

I can’t believe it took me this long to address this!!  ...

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Exclusive: “Bride and Prejudice Interracial Couple Cla...

Adam ,35,and Briana ,24,met on Plenty of Fish two years ago and are now engaged to be married in August. She’s African American and Spanish and ...

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Ever Tried a Straightening Brush? We Just Did, and Here̵...

I’ll admit I’m very apprehensive of bargain-priced straighteners, so I’ll have to get out in advance that I wouldn’t have trie...

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The Carrie Chronicles: “F&ck What You Think!̶...

Carrie Thompson     The hotel staff accountant position wasn’t a right fit for my ‘rolling thunder’ persona. The position and pay were falsely...

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Open Thread: How Many Black Women Are a Lost Cause?...

After blogging on behalf of black women, and trying to encourage them to open their options to quality men of all races for six years, I’m getti...

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Top Sports That Should Be On Your Bucket List...

It may sound a bit morbid creating a bucket list, which is a list of thing you want to do, achieve and experience before you die. But if you have a bu...

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White People Who Used the N-Word and Got a Pass...

Before I get into the meat of this, I want it to be clear that I do not condone the use of the n-word in any form–whether “lovingly”...

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The Reckoning Is Coming, And Some Folks are Confused...

Yesterday I was on a page (observing the wildlife) of a well-know black-woman-hating You Tuber, who has been the chief bullhorn of the world to trumpe...

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Spring, Sexy Kitten Look...

Maxi and I went to the annual Makeup Show Los Angeles last weekend and boy, did we get an eye full! I was really pleased to see that some of the exhib...

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White HBCU Student Starts Campaign Where Black Women are the...

Meet Russell Schiller, 20, a sophomore advertising major at Howard University. A Wisconsin native who grew up in a predominately black neighborhood, ...

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