The Discipline of Happiness – Being the BEST version of YO...
By “Empress NK” “Most folks are as happy as they make up their minds to be.” Abraham Lincoln “We cannot become what we need to be by remaining what we are.” Max de Pree “Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.” Dalai Lama “Research has shown…
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*Before you read on, being insulting or unnecessarily cruel in your comments won’t be tolerated, regardless of your hue.* When I heard ab...
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Why Do You Feel You Have to Explain? So much guilt I sense in reading some of the notes BB&W followers have about their preferences for non-black ...
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It was only a matter of time before it came to this. All of us, in this community, after years of bonding, will come together in pure “The Hango...
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We are finishing out the 2014 with pin-ups and a special message for our readers. Change is in the air. This will be the final Ba...
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As an observer and participant in social media, I’m privy to a wide range of belief systems. Some are based in reality. Many are so off the mark...
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Farhia and Jason were astounded that their beautiful wedding photographs went viral on the Internet. The pics of this chic and hip urban couple are ...
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I did this just for fun. Okay; how many did I miss? Attach them below!...
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I won’t lie. I don’t listen to modern day hip hop. But you’d pretty much have to be living under a rock if you haven’t heard F...
READ MOREThe Critics are Right. I AM “Crazy.”...
I don’t always play well with others. I am occasionally prone to outbursts. Doesn’t happen often, but when it does, it’s kinda epic....
READ MOREIRR Romance: Perfect Fit by Taige Crenshaw...
Beyond Black and White feature by: Taige Crenshaw Characters and the impressions they make to the reader are pivotal to a book. Estab...
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The holiday season is here and so are office parties, family functions, and any other excuse you can imagine to buy a dress. Now, the tricky part is f...
READ MOREOnline Friendships Ain’t Real, and Why You Should Only...
Events over the passed 24 hours have resulted in the loss of two people I thought were friends and the dissolution of a business relationship. Of cour...
READ MOREEnd of the Year, End of the Drama, Part II...
People whom I care about have contacted me regarding my last post about my feelings of being dragged into petty Facebook wars and the subsequent gossi...
READ MORELeona’s Love Quest OK, Cupid Tap Me Out: I’m Done wit...
I know I’ve threatened to quit online dating before, but this time, for realsies, I’m done with it. I’ve tried Plenty of Fish, Match.com, Chemis...
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The question… Hello Christelyn, I’m going to be straight forward, how do I grab the attention of a woman as a geeky introvert? By introver...
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READ MOREFormer Naysayer Takes Health in Her Own Hands and Thrives!!...
Got this note from a longtime reader and Facebook friend, Amber McDowell a few months ago… I remember a post you wrote about black women needing...
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Masa and Christine This is another online dating success story. Chris and Masa met in February 2013 on Match.com. Chris was looking for and foun...
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If you’ve been around for a while, you might know that I watch soap operas. Not just casually either–my DVR is set to Bold and the Beautif...
READ MOREWhat Pictures Say About You That You Might Not Like…...
I am an amateur photographer, and I’m told I take a pretty good photo. The most important thing I’ve learned about the art is that each ph...
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I’ve been getting a lot of people on my Facebook page, raving about the lip color I’m sporting in this photo. I’ve got news. ...
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The question… Getting to know a nice African American woman. She is terrific – she graduated with honors from an elite liberal arts coll...
READ MORENew Book Presentation: Change Your Mind Change Your Destiny...
Change Your Mind Change Your Destiny by Lakisha A. Watson-Moore Unlike other books written for Black women, “Change Your Mind, C...
READ MOREAnother Letter From an Asian Guy…...
Got this letter today, and it warmed my heart. Be encouraged! I enjoy reading your site. |I saw your last article on potentially throwing in the towel...
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I’ve been wearing my hair out a lot lately, and while I love the volume of my afro, all that handling is causing my ends to become very unhappy....
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Three Personal Finance Tips to Get You Prepared for the New Year 2014 is just about done and the New Year is around the corner. How are you planning t...
READ MOREIRR Romance Review: Hurricane by Taige Crenshaw...
My review of Taige Crenshaw’s “Hurricane” (The Singleton) – By Yema Nelson First thing’s first. This IS A MUST READ!!! This is the kind of...
READ MOREAs Much as I Love Christian Bale, I WON’T Be Watching ...
…And neither should you. Hollywood has a looooong history of white-washing biblical stories that originated on or around the continent of Africa...
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