SirLoin’s Babe Wednesday: Madonna...

  That’s right.  Expect the unexpected when it comes to SirLoin and Babe Wednesday. Any guy crazy about his lady and looking forward to the family they are creating will totally get my choice of mothers to be as this week’s Babes. Seeing her as her body changes.  Being there to insure that she has…

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How the ‘Black Church’ Cheated this Woman Out of...

How Being Churchified And Church Going Limited My Dating Pool And Marriage Prospects. By Raina T. Shaw Also known as The Salon Chair “Therapist”. ...

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Jacque Reid, Tom Joyner, radio, personality, coaching, IRR dating,

Honest Question: What Do Folks Expect Quality Black Women to...

By now you’ve heard that I’m coaching adorable radio and television personality, Jacque Reid. We announced the endeavor, coordinated with ...

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So…Street Harassment is Important Now That White Women...

Recently, a video documenting one woman being harassed on the street by various men in New York went viral and sparked numerous discussions on news ch...

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dating, vetting, relationship advice, full disclosure, mystery, history, swirling, video, Youtube, reader question, dating white guys, questions, the past, sexual history, STDs, birth control,

On Vetting: How Men Run Game By Holding Your Past Against Yo...

He says he doesn’t want any secrets between you. He says your past doesn’t matter…but he still just wants to know. Everything. The a...

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ANNOUNCEMENT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Wanna test out the new Forum?...

We are still in the process but now is the time to test this baby out before we fully populate the forum with content. Sign in and register here: http...

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entertainment, Netflix, movies, Chris Silber, film, interracial marriage,

Buy It! Stream It! “My Last Day Without You” on ...

Folks round these parts are familiar with the film, My Last Day Without You, written by my friend, Chris Silber (boyfriend of the fabulous Misee Harri...

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I’m Beginning to Think that Many Black Folks are Conte...

I’m reeling because I just ended a relationship with a person whom I have respected for years, and whom I thought was an ally on behalf of No We...

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SHARE: Dating Outside of the States 2. Gems from the Thread...

There is so much great information that is being been shared by the readers in the comment section of Dani’s article SHARE: Dating Outside of th...

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IRR Romance: Loving You by Jan Irving...

  Futuristic Interracial Romance I saw a poster for a martial arts school with this stunning man on it and fantasized about the kind of woman he ...

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Weekend Read: Excerpt from “Child Protection: A Novel ...

  Title (tentative) “Child Protection: A Novel Of Deception” I actually started writing this book years ago, but lost what I’d ...

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SHARE: Dating Outside of the States...

Recently, some of our readers shared some very juicy gems about their interactions and dating experiences while traveling abroad. Most important to no...

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dating, potential, black women, single women, IRR dating, Swirling, dateless, quality women, non black men

It Should Be a SIN for Women Like This to be Dateless!!...

I am beyond disgusted at how quality, high-value black women are left withering on the vine. I just got this letter today: I’ve just stumbled up...

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Deion Sanders Acknowledges the Reality of “Damaged Bey...

We get a lot of criticism about our use of the term, “DBR,” a psychology/psychiatric term that was popularized by blogger, Evia Moore. It&...

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On Vetting: Dump Toxic People Who Prefer You to Sustain Unhe...

I ran across a news story about a woman who lost 150 pounds of extra weight who had to also end an engagement with a man who would rather see her morb...

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Is Pumpkin Pie for White People?...

I managed to wrangle a few pumpkins out of my raised beds this year…but just barely. Pumpkin, melons, cucumbers and squash are susceptible to a ...

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SirLoin’s Babe Wednesday: Body Art...

You think I am talking about ink.  Nope.  No tattoos here. Plenty of paint however. Since ancient times man has been adorning the human body in vari...

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Get X-Mas Money! Enter Our First BB&W “Happy Coup...

We’re on a mission to rebuild all the “Happy Couple” photos and stories we collected on our original Beyond Black & White fan pa...

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Neil’s Story: The Overseas Wedding that (Almost) Never...

Hello Christelyn , this is my journey to swirling. My name is Neil and for as long as I can remember I’ve always liked black women , growing up in n...

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Late Night Man Candy Monday: Welcome to Bollywood!!...

Hollywood is overrated, so I hear, it’s not like I’ve been there but what I do know is that there is a more festive and exciting place tha...

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IRR Romance: Heart to Heart by Ife Oshun...

   Coming November 3 Heart To Heart by Ife Oshun   Paranormal romance Heart To Heart is Book Two in the Angelica Brown series, and the sequel ...

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Matthew Hussey, leona's love quest, dating ideas, real life, romance, friends, retreat, suggestions, where to meet men,

Leona’s Love Quest:  The ABC’s of Finding Love ...

By the time you read this it will be just about two months since I returned from Matthew Hussey’s High Value Woman Lifestyle Retreat. I wish I was s...

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“Dear White Guys Who Like Black Women, Please Stop Say...

Listen white guys who love us… I know you think you’re being super nice when you say you just love how “strong” black women ar...

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AAWG: Tell a white guy...

Deviant dude that I am I’m gonna deviate from Ask A White Guy and delve into Tell A White Guy. I’m mainly talking to the men who choose to...

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IRR Book Review: Tempted by Samara King...

Reviewed by Lauren Jimerson   (Reader Advisory: This book contains scenes of voyeurism and a brief reference to F/F intimacy.) Tempted by Samar...

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Fashion and Beauty Roundup: MAC’s New Stuff, Halle Doi...

‘Round these parts we LOVE being girls, don’t we, ladies? Here’s some news you can use… Ooo La La!! Halle Berry has collaborat...

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From Uganda to Serbia, Rose Bugarčić’s Incredible Jo...

From Uganda to Serbia, Rose Bugarčić’s Incredible Journey   Decision on employment presented by the Minister Ivica Dacic (Photo A. Vasilj...

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Fall in the Garden…Time for Greens, Greens, and More G...

One of the benefits of living in a climate that never freezes and stays below 90 (sometimes well below) most of the year is that I have a really, real...

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OMG…Matthew Hussey Gives the Most BRILLIANT Advice on ...

He just keeps nailing it over and over. Matthew Hussey gives you REAL techniques in which you can implement to get immediate results. How many of you ...

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