“Did This White Guy Use Me for Sex?” Yeah; Proba...

I received this note on my You Tube channel this morning, and it was so candid and so typical of how today’s hook-up culture has got women all mixed up, I had to share. Christelyn, I have been completely infatuated with a man since 3 years ago when we first met online through an adult…

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QOTW: “Am I Wrong to EXPLICITLY Exclude Black Men from...

Hi Christelyn,   I have been following this website for a little while now, and im happy to know that there is a support group for those who want to ...

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Yoga Poses to Trim The Love Handles Right Off...

Building upon the previous yoga poses to target problem areas, take a gander at how side plank can trim off and tone those love handles. But it must b...

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10 Ultra-Moisturizing Products We Love For Natural Hair...

  Natural hair is both beautiful and versatile. Some people seem to think that going natural means less hair maintenance, and that can be true wi...

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Ask a White Guy: Older Men, Younger Women?...

by SavageTango I saw an interesting discussion going on in here not too long ago. Well, pretty much every discussion here is interesting but this one ...

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If You’re Single….Get a Dog!...

I can’t say that I share your frustration with being incapable of meeting people nor finding men. Seriously folks, if you are serious about find...

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SirLoin’s Babe Wednesday: Babes, Bikes and Bliss...

Well of course we are going to show you the babes. We are going to show you the bikes. However we are going to do more than that.   You see we ha...

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Black Militants Call ESPN Journalist, Jemele Hill “Rac...

I just have to say something. These so-called pro-black militants on Facebook who “claim” they only desire the betterment and advancement ...

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Video: You Tubers, Shelly and Michael Tie the Knot!...

Up-and-coming You Tube star couple, Shelly and Michael made it official earlier this month. They wanted to share their happy day with our community. D...

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Open Forum: Okay; We Know White Men Married to Black Women a...

By now a lot of  you have heard about the study by the National Council of  Family relations reported that amongst the study of 6,000 respondents, w...

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Next BB&W LIVE Chat: How to Know When He (or She) is In...

Last week’s live chat was such a massive success, we’re doing it again, and adding another hour! We’re adding it because the topic o...

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Man Candy Monday: The Pittsburgh Steeler With the Awesome Ha...

I hear the Pittsburgh Steelers whupped the Cleveland Browns in the opening season game. Well, that’s all fine and good but I’m more inter...

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Fabulous & Flirty Fall Trends...

Although the temperatures are bit on the high side and it seems a bit premature to pull out our jackets and scarves, the calendar lets us know that...

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How Blackistanis Police Their Own: Girl Gets a Beat Down for...

A Rock Hill, South Carolina teenager contacted the police after being attacked by two hood boogers for “acting too much like a white girl.”...

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BB&W’s Very Own ‘EarthJeff’ is Gettin...

Jeff and Toni’s Story Old, balding, creaky-kneed white male high-school science teacher about to cross the threshold to 50. Adorable, sweet, cute bl...

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Kevin Talks Football!...

Ladies I want to explain football to you. Some of you already know, but trust me when I tell you that men find it to be a great thing if you know the ...

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Book Review: Taking My Hand Out Of My Pocket...

  Taking My Hand Out Of My Pocket by Lorie Tensen Synopsis: The book is my autobiography: the story of my personal journey which began in 1979 as...

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In Case You Missed It: BB&W Live Discussion on the High...

I’m still getting the feel for the live Google+ hangouts, but I’m humbled that so many people tried to log in that the room exceeded capac...

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And We Wonder Why More Non-Black Men Don’t Approach Us...

One of the main challenges I have as an advocate for black women in interracial relationships is that many of my readers say white men just don’...

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Lineage: The Extraordinary Gift of Knowing Where You Came Fr...

For my birthday, my husband gave me a precious gift: my identity. My husband has always known who he was. He has a family crest and can trace his a...

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TBT: Lady Sings the Blues...

In 1972 Diana Ross took on the role of the magnificent and tragic life of Billie Holiday. As she she withers in a strait jacket in a prison cell, wait...

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Yoga for Amazing Shoulders and Upper Back...

The holidays will soon approach; are your shoulders and upper back ready for that spaghetti strap or strapless dress that will make the men all pause ...

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Iyanla Can NOT Fix This Man’s Life! I Just #Cant with ...

I don’t have words to describe how DISGUSTED I was when I saw the upcoming preview of the new season of Iyanla’s “Fix My Life.”...

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R&B and Hip Hop Asian Artists Featuring Black Women: Is...

Right now, I’m jamming to a song from a pretty cute Asian singer crooning about a mocha-colored sister and I think I’m going to be obsesse...

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BB&W LIVE CHATS Weekly on Google+!!!...

I’m so excited I can barely stand it. You know how much I love connecting with all of you here. Part of the success of this site has been the ab...

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BB Creams For Brown Girls...

  Hello Brown Beauties! BB Creams or beauty balms have become very popular in the last few years and now every major beauty brand carries some so...

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SirLoinsBabe Wenesday: For Mature Audences only....

This week we offer the babes in the fifty and over category.  Why? 1.) Because Black women stay beautiful! 2.) Us older guys want to Swirl too. First...

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FAKE COUPLE ALERT: How Cute are Tamron Hall and Bear Grylls!...

        By Dani Have you seen this steamy video going around with TODAY Show co-host Tamron Hall and rugged outdoorsman Bear Gryll...

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LMAO! New Video, “If Black Women Said What White Men S...

Oh my! Like…white dudes, PLEASE take heed!...

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Ten Interests that can Connect You to Other People...

By Dani We talk here often about getting out of the house to meet people and have suggested  joining Meet-up or Facebook groups around interracial da...

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