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Open Thread: “How Do I Explain My Preference for Black...

Okay well he didn’t say that…exactly. Here’s what this 20-something white guy actually wrote… Mrs. Karazin,I’m not ashamed and I make it pretty well known amongst my friends that I have acquired an affinity for black women. As a result, I’ve had several people ask me (out of curiosity instead of disgust, I hope) why…

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Why I Have Mixed Feelings About the Firing of the Co-Host of...

I remember when I was working as a lowly PR grunt representing a bagel company and trying to get a mention on the “Opie and Anthony” show ...

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New Documentary on the Black Church Shines a Light on Prospe...

I have to give credit where it’s due, because columnist Deborrah Cooper was the first to shine a light on how the church exploits black women an...

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Have I Got You Curious Enough to Try Yoga? Online Guide Give...

  I’ve been preaching the benefits of yoga on this blog for years because quite frankly, it works. It is such a holistic mode of exercise t...

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One Black Mother’s Heartbreaking Story of Raising Her ...

When I read this very personal account from Breukelen Bleu, the founder of the Black Woman Think Tank, I knew I had to share it. So much of the criti...

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History Made: Michelle Howard Become Navy’s First Fema...

Monday was event for celebration as the United States Navy appointed Michelle Howard to the ranks of Admiral making her the first woman in US history ...

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July is My Birth Month! Countdown to 41!...

Last week I took this picture to memorialize how I look at 40. If you would have told my 20 year-old-self that I’d feel better and look better a...

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Grow It in a Bag: Patio-To-Plate Encourages Container Garden...

As I turn off a dusty road in Temecula wine country, I can’t help but be impressed with Catrina’s green house, where she’s growing j...

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Five 100% Natural Beauty Products that Work 100% of the Time...

I’m proud to say that the majority of the things I put into my body is natural and organic, but I can’t say the same thing about what goes...

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Austin, TX Man Asks, “Am I the Black Woman’s Sec...

First, thanks to all the men who have been writing me lately. I’m glad you’re listening and observing. Gap, meet bridge. I got this letter...

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Man Candy Monday/Tuesday: “Kilt” With Kindness...

I hope you all are enjoying the warm weather we’re having. Me, I’m out and about keeping my eyes open for candy and potential new dates, a...

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QOTW: “Should I Move to More Interracial Relationship-...

People move for jobs all the time. But what about packing your bags for the chance at romance?...

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Riddle Me This: What Other Award Shows Have Actual Shootings...

I’m convinced most of the wealthy black elite class in America could not give two negative phucks for ‘regular’ black people, and th...

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Open Thread: Hotep-Dude’s Idea of a Legit Harem…...

This photo and subsequent caption came along my Facebook feed, and not the first time–I’ve seen lots of propaganda of late advocating poly...

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I Officially Hate the Female Character for Zane’s Book...

So why am I a hater? Take a look at this trailer and you’ll get an idea. Okay so this woman has TWO hot and delicious men in love with her and w...

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Is Paying an Extra $500 for Produce Convince You To Start Ur...

This post is especially targeting to my readers in California, Oklahoma and Texas–the states most affected by this ongoing drought. News release...

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It’s Here! Author Tiana Laveen’s New “Sain...

The sexy tale continues with Tiana Laveen’s latest, Saint and Sinners! This book can be read as a stand-alone; however, the reader is at a treme...

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Lupita Graces Her First Lancome Ad… Take a Look!...

I’ m buying what Lupita is selling and I don’t even wear make-up, but I’ll make an exception. Lancôme’s Teint Idole Ultra 24...

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Why Tomatoes Should Be Growing in Your Garden and Eaten on Y...

Tomatoes are by for the most popular plant purchased in the summer, and with good reason–tomatoes are easy to grow and prolific fruit producers....

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Oh Lawd. The “Ghosts of Mississippi” Have Arrive...

There’s been fervent discussion as of late regarding the widening disparity between the 3’s and the 4’s–as in curl pattern 3, ...

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This Brown Baby is Oxford Bound! 8 Year Old Makes University...

His name is Joshua Beckford and he’s ‘just a normal 8 year old’, according to his proud father. He asks a lot of curious questions ...

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You Know Your Polish Rocks When the Technicians Ask Where Yo...

It’s not often that I, as an avid gardener get both a manicure and pedicure at my local strip mall nail salon, but this time was special. I want...

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Another BB&W Reader Success Story! Remember April &...

Some of you might recall a reader letter from April, who wrote me back in 2013 about how this blog was a support to her as she began dating Henry, a f...

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Robin Thicke and His Very Public Attempt to Win Back His Wif...

Robin Thicke is really, really, really serious about winning back his humiliated wife, Paula Patton with this new video, “Get You Back,” a...

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Company’s Photo Discrepancy Gives Subtle Message to Bl...

I’ve quietly watched a company called Baby K’Tan work to dig itself out of a public relation social media nightmare because of this photo....

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Delicious Zucchini Spaghetti with Fresh Pesto...

I’m so excited that my yellow crookneck squash is producing like gangbusters, because I’m loving being able to create delicious spaghetti-...

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Loving Day Flagship Event Recap Plus Adorable ‘Loving ...

If you live anywhere near the East Coast and didn’t go to the Loving Day flagship event in New York City earlier this month, you might want to k...

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Man Candy Monday: Men in Uniform to Service You...

I know, I know, I know. You wanted a Man Candy bag filled to the brim with MEN IN UNIFORM, and after much toiling and investigating I’m pleased ...

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Valid Excuse? Why You’re Not Seeing a New Post Today&#...

Well…most of you know I’m the mom of four children. An AMBITIOUS mom for four children. I decided that on the 11th birthday of my middle-t...

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Who Knew Asian Men Were This Sexy? More of Philippe, Host of...

My new friend, Philippe Koo is truly one of the most beautiful Asian men I’ve ever seen in my life. His father is Chinese and his mother is Germ...

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