Essence, Dr. Farrah Gray, Black men, haters, marriage, Eve, Maximillion Cooper, swirling, media, families, blended couples, engagements, culture,

Utter Hypocrisy: Let’s Talk About All the Dudes Hating...

Sigh…a segment of people invested in keeping black women in an inferior position (and I say “people,” because this group is composed of both black men, black women, and some other non-black folks) have made a big fuss online because Eve, a rapper, formerly urban, edgy, and the ride-or-die black chick most thugs are comfortable…

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Black American Matriarch Set Roots In New Zealand...

Elizabeth Cabell American slavery left an unwitting legacy on most of us descended from Africans. The sad thing is that most of us don’t know our hi...

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Green Apple Smoothie Recipe Plus Giveaway!...

The green apples on our tree have matured early this year due to the global-warming trend that only seems to be affecting California.  I’m lovi...

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QOTW: “Do Non-Black Men Like THICK Black Women?”...

Got this question from a reader last week: Hi Chris, Thanks for all the great work you are doing in promoting and educating people about interracial d...

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Who Knew? Six International Folk Remedies for Common Ailment...

See how different cultures tackle the most common ailments, naturally. Sore throats In the Ukraine, many people relive sore throats by gargling every ...

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Astrid & Maher “L’amore est eternal”...

Michelle Calloway of The Swirl World posted a photograph of Astrid and Maher on her Pinterest board.  It left me wanting more so I had to go fishing ...

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The Evolution of a Swirler: One Guy Tells His Story...

We often ponder over the idea of preference, but it’s rare that we get a personal story from a man’s perspective. What is more interesting...

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(Bonus) Man Candy Monday: World Cup Hotties!!...

Is it just me, but is there some special gene that footballers have in common that makes them smoking hot? I mean, I’m a soccer mom in name only...

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Man Candy Monday: The Asian Mystery Man...

This photo has been making it’s way up and down my timeline and I can’t help it. I need to know who this guy is, he’s gorgeous and s...

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Maximilian Cooper, Eve, wedding, tying the knot, engagement, black women with white men, nuptials, entertainment, culture, society, British,

Eve Becomes “Mrs. Maximillion Cooper”...

This from People magazine Rapper and actress Eve married her fiancé, Maximillion Cooper, on Saturday. The Barbershop star and the British designer an...

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travel, vacation, finance, economics, family trips, couples, blended families, kid friendly, tradition, disneyland is too expensive, traveling with kids, large family vacations,

Why I Said “Goodbye” to Disneyland, Forever. The...

Disneyland used to be the happiest place on earth for me. I have memories as early as 1979 when I was just five years old, my mom and dad packing me a...

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The New and Improved. BB&W Open thread...

Today is Father’s Day tell us something nice about your old man.  ...

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R.I.P. Ruby Dee: Ossie Is Waiting for His Lady on The Other ...

The world is mourning the departure of yet another of our brightest stars. Actress, activist, and author Ruby Dee has died of natural causes at the ag...

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How Can You Be Sexy If You Believe in No Sex Before Marriage...

Matthew Hussey takes on women who want to save themselves for marriage. He’s got an interesting perspective on sexually inactive women and how t...

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NYC, Loving Day, event, dating, mixed relationships, black women, marriage, biracial, blended families, meet and greet, celebration, history,

Are You Going to the NYC Loving Day Celebration or Nah?...

I’ll be attending the 11th annual Loving Day celebration in New York City this coming Saturday. I hope to see some our regular readers there sin...

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QOTW: “How Do I Protect My Girlfriend From Racist Fami...

The question… “Here’s my dilemma: To make a long story short, one of my two sisters, my father, and I are the only three in my entir...

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New BB&W Writer Talks College Dating and Kissing Frogs...

By fellow BB&W poster, “SomethingDifferent22” When I was a child I used to listen to stories of princess with some chagrin. Even as a ...

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teens, readers, dating, lessons, vetting, interracial dating, mixed relationships, advice, discussion, community, young black women, options, future, marriage, positivity,

The College Girl’s Guide To Getting Through School Wit...

June is graduation season, and all the 18 and 19-year-old collegial hopefuls are soon to flood the halls of academia, full of hope and promise. Some m...

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Health Trivia: Why Every Cook Should Be Growing Tomatoes...

Yesterday I was cooking my famous honey-lavender chicken, which calls for searing fat-filled chicken thighs in a cast iron skillet, and got a hot grea...

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Is Your Bad Credit Affecting Your Romantic Relationships?...

If you have less than stellar credit, you may believe that living a cash-only existence, is a way around your bad credit rating. You may also believe ...

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Dr. Cicely Cobb, teacher, racism, lawsuit, Nevada, harassment, black woman, culture, white children, disrespect, integration, diversity,

When Exploring The Global Village Becomes A Nightmare...

A dedicated teacher with a Phd in her field is a dream for any public high school, right? Unfortunately for Dr. Cicely Cobb, it was a nightmare.  She...

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biracial, children, marriage, couples, Halle Berry, divorce, Hollywood, court, child support, equality, Gabrielle, father, Nahla,

Halle Ordered to Pay $16K a Month in Child Support. Is it Fa...

Trending right now is the unusual court decision handed down that Halle Berry pay her daughter’s father, Gabriel Aubrey, $16,000 per month in ch...

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vacation, scuba, snorkeling, zoo, marine life, beaches, dolphins, whales, travel, get away, locations, relaxation, destinations, Honeymoons, Mexico, Caribbean, beach, tax, Spanish, Latina, water, holiday, advice, review, suggestion, great places to visit,

So Bueno: The Caribbean Coast of Mexico...

If you’re looking for Mexico holidays then you should definitely consider heading for the coast of the Caribbean. The area is a paradise stretch of ...

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breast feeding, black motherhood, shame, body hate, children, nutrition, body hatred, internet, education, stigma, public approval, sexuality, graduate student breast feed baby, instagram, slut shaming, image, picture, University,

Does This Picture Offend You? Now, Ask Yourself, WHY....

Social media is up in arms because a recent graduate is proudly displaying both her cap and gown and a partial breast to feed her infant. Predictably ...

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mixed couples, interracial relationship, black women dating white men, society, perception, harassment, racism, culture, blended families, biracial children, real life, stories, challenges, Youtube, video

Another You Tube Couple Shares Their Story: Val & Andre...

After our first feature of one of the fabulous You Tube couples that follow this blog, I got this note… “We are Val & Andrew. I’...

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self esteem, advice, society, fitting in, culture, individualism, opinions, power dynamics,

Let Um Know…. I’m Not Here for THAT!!...

Time for a public service announcement from the good people that occupy the head space of Tracy Renee Jones. Read for clarity and content if you never...

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Tichina Arnold is Not Here for DBR Men and Their Interweb Bu...

“Spare the rod. Spoil the child” is what the old folks say about teaching a youngin’ about the circumstances and repercussions of on...

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sexy guys, dating, relationships, mating, flirting, man candy monday, twins,

Man Candy Monday: Enough to Share, Sexy Twins For You and a ...

You ever been somewhere and seen a hot guy? Then as you gaze another hot guy shows up, and then you do a double take as you realize the hot guys are T...

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style, fashion, dressing, grooming tips, flirting, attraction, dating, relationships, couples, ashy skin, dry skin, winter, hydration, suave moroccan, dry oil, beauty products, style, winter,

Study Says Unexpected Cosmetic Really Does Make Women Seem M...

You fluff your ‘fro, powder your nose, and put on that last layer of lip gloss before you give yourself a final once over. Add the earrings, sho...

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Cucumber Season Means Home Made Pickles!...

I like cucumbers as much as the next person, but too much of anything is just…to much. I’m very, VERY new to the world of canning and pres...

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