So, Bill DeBlasio’s Marriage Makes Folks in the Tea Pa...
I’ve been deluged with emails from people asking me my thought on a quote from a columnist from the Washington Post Today’s GOP is not racist, as Harry Belafonte alleged about the tea party, but it is deeply troubled — about the expansion of government, about immigration, about secularism, about the mainstreaming of what used to be…
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Chef Bob: Grilled Coconut Lobster...
Grilled Coconut Lobster I love grilling out, especially during the summer to help keep my house cool. Fish isn’t something I normally cook on...
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Swirling and Marriage: Tricia and Peter...
Oh look at Tricia and Peter of San Francisco. What a beautiful bride and handsome groom. Can you get more basic than a natural but glam style the�...
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The Solution for Educated Black Women Who Want to Get Marrie...
I went to a funeral today for a cousin’s husband who died suddenly from a heart attack. Both in their fifties and her first marriage, my cousin ...
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Monday Punday11...
Monday-Punday #11 Warning: SirLoin knows that seven days without a pun makes one weak. He is one-of-a-kind. When he was made, they broke the mold R...
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“Swirling Catfish?” One Writer Wonders If Her On...
The writer titled this letter, “I Think I May Have Lost Him For Good.” Dear Mrs. Karazin, Hey. I just found out about your site, and I hav...
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Justice for Anene Booysen...
South African teenager Anene Booysen, who was viciously raped, mutilated, and eventually died from her injuries, has finally received some justice. A ...
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You’re Never Fully Dressed Without A…...
Those orphans from Annie were right. You’re never fully dressed without a smile. And with the holidays coming, what, with all those “poten...
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Like My Hair? Get it Now....
I achieved this look by parting my hair in eight sections, twisting each section, and then then rolling them with soft rollers. I always dampen my h...
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Weekend Read: A Tale of a WWII Heroine, “Colette”...
CHAPTER 1 Paris, Summer 1938 Colette and her friend Anne rushed across the boulevard Saint-Germain. They had just finished their last exam and were fi...
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New Study Confirms the Online is the Best Way to Date Interr...
One of the chief fears I hear from people curious about interracial dating is that is rejection. Non-black men, who’ve probably heard from one l...
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Cycling 101: The Basics on Riding “The Iron Horse̶...
One of our regular commenter DeepWater offered some really good tips on cycling in the recent Street Harassment thread that I would like to break out ...
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Feast Your Eyes Friday: Danai Gurira Is a Beautiful Black Wo...
With skin the tone of dark chocolate and a smile that radiates quiet confidence how can you not be enthralled by the lovely Danai Jekesai Gurira? I o...
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Are Black Women Safe Anywhere?...
Renisha McBride was in a car accident at 2:30 am last Saturday. Having been in a horrible accident myself this year, I know how frantic one can become...
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Up for Discussion: “Are White Men the New Black?”...
Oh…this post is gonna make some GAT-DL folks mad. But since when did that EVER stop us? My dearest Kola Boof tagged me in one of the many DeBlas...
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Let’s Test the New Pics Feature! Post Your Favorite Ma...
As many of you have been recently exposed to my voluminous posts about eyeshadow as of late, many of you know I’m new to doing the fancy stuff b...
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Even the King of New York is Swirling: Bill Deblasio Wins Th...
Fresh off the heels of our most recent conversation regarding same race hate speech we have a new hero under our belt. Bill Deblasio took the New Yo...
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Who Are Your Favorite Black Women On Prime Time?...
I know a lot of you are “Scandalized” but I’ve been bewitched. In other words, I just can’t get enough of this season’s ...
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Photo of the Day: I Did The ENTIRE Yoga Sequence and Lived!...
I’ve been practicing yoga for years, but since I joined the Temecula Yoga Collective, I feel like all those videos and gym-chain classes we all ...
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Black Women Need Men Like Cory Alexander Haywood Like a Fish...
#InterracialRelationshipsAre4BlackMen. At least that’s what Cory Alexander Haywood would like for us to believe, because hell, only black men, i...
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Cream Foundation Options; What’s the difference?...
A lot of people wonder about the different types of foundation. Should they use liquid, cream, or powder. I am a huge fan of cream foundation becaus...
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Look at This FACE!!...
It’s courtesy of two beauty items I used this week. This first thing is G.M. Collin Active Exfoliant Powder and G.M. Collin Intensive Exfoliatin...
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Taking Off Your Desperation...
I discovered the fabulous Ava DuVernay when it was announced she’d be directing an episode of my favorite TV show, Scandal (the episode will air o...
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Monday is Punday 10...
Monday-Punday #10 Warning: SirLoin is an incorrigible punster. Do not incorrige. He is one-of-a-kind. Sort of a one-off. What is less well k...
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Man Candy Monday: Colin Kaepernick Can Tackle Me Anyday of t...
They say you a girl looks for the type of man that reminds her of her father. Well, my father Big Jessie was, big, standing at 6’2 so tall men h...
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What Your Typical Black Woman Means When She Says, “Ge...
Having run an interracial dating website for the past three years, I can’t add up how many times I’ve heard that phrase. “GET ME A W...
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My Top 12 Hottest TV Guys...
Just for fun, let’s have some eye candy! Here is my list of the hottest guys on TV right now (in my opinion). These guys are so drool-worthy! I ...
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Weekend Read: At First Sight: A Strange But True Love Story...
At First Sight: A Strange But True Love Story by Don Rice Jr. (Clean version) This work is based on actual events, certain details have been altered t...
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Photos of the Day: Twinsies!...
Last September when me and The Hubster took a trip to his old stomping ground in Beverly Hills, I ran into a woman I couldn’t take my eyes off o...
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Let’s Talk Movies 3...
LET’S TALK MOVIES……3 By Capt. Smooth Tyler Perry The good, the bad and the ugly I noticed one of Tyler Perry’s films was rec...
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