I’ve been seeing the following bit of stupid making its way around the web at an increased clip. The people who are desperate to guilt-trip blac...
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As a former public relations executive, I can tell you without any doubt that the media sends us messages–messages that we expect, messages that...
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Some people wonder why this blog continues to talk about black men in reference to black women dating interracially. It would seem at the surface, tha...
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A non-black man just sent me the email below regarding an exchange he had with a black woman on OKCupid that he found attractive. This woman is so def...
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People often wonder why this site sometimes discusses the relationships black men have with black women. The criticism is often, “If you’v...
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By Pella I penned my last essay to start a discussion about the entitlement to women’s bodies, which (whoooo) it sure did create a discussion. O...
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Okay so we all know that Kanye West and Kim Kardashian FINALLY tied the knot this weekend in Florence, Italy. I for one am glad the whole fiasco is ov...
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Here’s the question: Dear Christelyn , A very heart breaking issue has arisen in my family because of my dating preferences. A brief history: I ...
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I feel a mixture of compassion and frustration with black women who are determined to degrade themselves in the pursuit of seeking validation from po...
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Got this note this morning: Hi, my name is Gary, and I would like to say first that I find your advice to be very helpful. I am 22 and my fiance Tunis...
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I got the following news release from the public relations reps over at EBONY magazine. In the May issue of EBONY magazine, the publication partnered ...
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UPDATE!!!!!!! It is all a hoax ladies and gentleman the source article is a Hoax. “Anne Gus” is really a guy who was outed after posting a...
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