Sexuality

Whatever you like: T.I., Deyjah and the Duality of...

Introduction T.I., a notorious rapper turned “black elder and pundit” decided to open his dutty, stank, rancid, ugly fat trap once more to announc...
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Hymens don’t determine virginity, TI!

Written by Penelope Farthing   In today’s episode of boundary crossing, we have noted alleged cheater and rapper, TI, revealing that he attends...
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He’s Just Not That Into You: The Case of Angela ...

Thanks to Penelope and Christelyn, I have been challenged to expand my writing repertoire beyond my weekly interviews. While I will still be interview...
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Abstinence: Antiquated or Awesome?

Written by Penelope Farthing Last week I talked a quite a bit about sexual health among black women, from tips to prevent getting HIV, to why unprotec...
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HIV Prevention Tips

Written by Penelope Farthing With straight black women getting featured in HIV medication ads, infection rates in Atlanta rivaling some third world co...
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Health Alert: Startling Rise in Syphilis; CDC Blam...

Diseases once thought to be virtually eliminate or at least under control have reared their ugly heads. Chlamydia, gonorrhea and syphilis are making a...
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Lesbianism as an Option for Black Women Who Can...

When I heard about it, I almost couldn’t believe it. But…to be honest, I did. The idea that interracial dating is such a repugnant option ...
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Time to Get Real About Protecting Black Women from...

Last week when I did a video about a fan of mine who’s bestie was a gay male with HIV practicing unsafe sex practices, we got a troll from the u...
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On Vetting: The Importance of Personal ‘Self...

This topic has been on my mind for such a long time, but it’s been difficult to formulate my thoughts in a way that comes off more educational a...
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40+ Face and Body Appreciation Thread!

First, let me apologize for the ageists who will have a problem with me showing our over 40 asses and boobs. You might just want to let the thread go ...
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Man Candy Monday: Able Bodied Men

From time to time it assists one’s palate to try new things. You who sit and drool over traditional favorites and refuse to consider anything ou...
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New Anti-Swirling Meme: “How Can You Oppose ...

I’ve been seeing the following bit of stupid making its way around the web at an increased clip. The people who are desperate to guilt-trip blac...
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Intimacy Is Not Built Through Sex. Surprised?

  A couple of months ago, I downloaded Tinder after hearing good things about it. And in one month’s time, I had four dates with three guys, pr...
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Feminism Series: Real Reasons Women Aren’t H...

So the conversation rages on over the real meaning behind the study released by Stephen Wu and Paul Hagstrom revealing the level of unhappiness expe...
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