Question of the Week

Question of the Week: Why Do You Swirl?

I recently noticed a rather lengthy post from one of our male followers. I thought that I would share his post, with permission. I hope that you enjoy...
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What do you gain from incessant manstroking?

Written by Nicole J. I spend a lot of time online in black women circles. The topics are vast, ranging from hair and makeup to keto recipes to cleanin...
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What tips do you have for a marriage minded 30-som...

I wanted to ask a question about getting back into the dating game after a long hiatus. What’s the best way to start dating again after about a 1 an...
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Colorism: Are We Overplaying It?

Before I get into the meat of this blog, let me address a few things: Do I believe colorism is real? Yes. Do I believe colorism is a problem in the Bl...
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How can I get back in the dating game after a 20-y...

I ran across your post and decided to ask a few questions. My 45th birthday is coming up and I wanted to start dating again. I have been divorced for ...
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How do I date as an introverted black woman?

Thanks for submitting your questions, readers! See below for my response 🙂 I live in Washington, DC.  I have been out of the dating scene for over...
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“If you’re so happy swirling, why do y...

Written by Nicole J. I had the honor of having one of my blogs reposted on Lipstick Alley, a gossip site that largely caters to black women. It even w...
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QOTW: My Daughter’s Father Doesn’t Wan...

I received this note from a fan… Hi Christelyn! I need some advice…So I have a 6 year old daughter & we live in a majority white commu...
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QOTW: “How Can I Help My Mother Get Over Her...

Got this note from a 24 year old concerned daughter… Hi Christelyn, I am currently in Las Vegas with my mom and last night while we were watchin...
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What I Means When a Guy You Just Met Sends You Por...

It happens more than you think, and there’s a reason why some men do this. https://youtu.be/8hHcif6NdUI When a guys sends you porn or inappropri...
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QOTW: Do You Think You Feel Entitled to More Than ...

Multiple kids, but wants a hot single guy. Overweight with man boobs, but wants a Playboy model. Never finished college, wants someone who makes eleve...
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QOTW: “How Can I Support My People in an Int...

The note… I’m a 27y/o stay at home wife/new mom, I’ve been subscribed to your channel for a few years now. I am married to a Ukraini...
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BB&W Success! Here’s What Happens When ...

Just this morning I got this note, and I smiled from ear to ear. Hello again! First of all I’d like to send a million thank you’d to you a...
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QOTW: “How Can I Feel Good Enough?”

The Question… Hey Christelyn, Im Kassandre & I discovered you on YouTube and I always enjoy watching your videos! You are so gifted and very...
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