Gender Conflict

Man, those swirlers sure must be miserable!

The narrative commonly believed is that because I didn’t marry a black man and still write about black women’s relationship issues, that must mean...
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“At least I have a man!” is not a clap...

Imagine with me, if you will. You are single, happy, and doing your thing. You might be in school, working on your degree. Or, you’re working dutifu...
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Why I say no to coffee dates

After escaping a tedious 12 year relationship (don’t ask!), I have been thrust into the world of online dating…and so far, it has been a huge disa...
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Olamide Adeyooye, Killed for Being a “Bed We...

It’s 10:58 PM and I’m watching one of my favorite shows to put on for background noise. I like listing to Forensic Files because I can pop...
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Do Today’s Men REALLY Just Want to Be Women?

As a woman in her mid-forties, I have been looking on with increasing horror the societal moves towards blurring gender lines to the point of complete...
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Why is ‘Black Media’ Trying to Scare B...

You already know the answer to that. So…I recently got into the muck of Media Take Out to see what half-truths and gossip were being reported ab...
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Video: Why You Keep Striking Out with Black Women

Last week I had a conversation with a young man who has recently directed his romantic interest towards black women he is meeting online. He told me t...
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Ya’ll Will Still Take Taye Diggs. (A Respons...

When I first read an article on The Grio, titled, Is Taye Diggs so mad a Black women he wants to date us again? My first thought was to agree with th...
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So…What Do Black Men REALLY Think About Blac...

I know some of the fans here are probably saying, “Who cares?” You may not, but I guarantee you that there are many, many, MANY black wome...
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Bachelorette: She Dumped Him Because He Would Have...

Alas, there were new episodes of The Bachelorette this week, but that’s good for me, because I’ve been running behind, what with all the p...
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Modern Millennial Women are Absolutely Deluding Th...

I’ve recently made a commitment to myself to read more. In an effort to have some accountability in that department, I’d bought a subscrip...
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For the Fellas…Ya’ll Need to Choose Be...

My favorite pic of us ?? A post shared by ROBERT KARDASHIAN (@robkardashian) on Feb 20, 2017 at 8:52am PST As I continue to shake my head at the much-...
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It’s for THIS Reason that White Men and Blac...

Many of us in the interracial coupling community are aware of the jaw-dropping statistics that white men and black women marriages are 40% less likely...
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GAT-DL Teaches Vetting (and Fear of) All Men…...

It looks like the GAT-DL (Guardians of All Things Dark & Lovely) are at it again with a video circulating showing a rabid, white Trump supporter s...
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