Gender Conflict

Why We Don’t Talk About Black Men: ...

I think in order to better understand why black men as a topic come up in BW-centric and BWE spaces, you must understand why they do not come up. ...
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The Five Stages of Black Woman Grief, Part 1

I have observed behaviors in black women, self included, that made me think of the K├╝bler-Ross model or "Five Stages of Grief". Many black women have...
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Who Da F*ck Did I Think I Am………&...

More artistry from our favorite BB&W poet......
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Triple Consciousness and the Black Woman

It is a strange lot to be a black woman in American society. She was brought to this country to be an unpaid worker, a concubine and a broodmare. Her ...
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Being Soft is Pretty Sweet :)

WARNING!!! This post is not meant for happily masculine women, happily androgynous women, or feminists, so for all of our sake please skip this post.┬...
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Come Hither: Dirty Old Man or Experienced Lover? L...

I'm often the predator, but a young girl couldn't walk around being plump and juicy without coming to learn about the dreaded neighborhood phenomena k...
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My Sex Life is None of Your Business!!! Or is it?

What women do with their privates is no one else's business and it doesn't harm anyone as long as the sex is consensual and safe right? I disagree. I ...
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Does Lifting a Ban on Women in Combat Help with Ge...

The Pentagon wants to allow women on the front-lines of combat. But, do the ends justify the means?...
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One Blogger Says, “Feminism Ruined Courtship...

Feminism has left a relationship vacu├╝m resulting in confused women who do not know how to interact with men thus making them more vulnerable to expl...
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Messages from ‘Django Unchained’: The ...

Jenn breaks it ALL THE WAY DOWN!...
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Commentary on the Crooked Room: You Mad Sapphire? ...

Ever had someone declare your anger? Without your input? Well, that's because you're an angry black woman, a Sapphire to be exact. Melissa Harris-Perr...
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Why I don’t call myself a “fe...

"I want no part of any group, system or structure that sells the lie of being equal partners in striving to overcome inequality and oppression while ...
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The “White Guy Pass”: Does It Exist?

Do YOU think "white guy passes" exist? Do you give them out? Have you had WM expecting a "pass" from you? ...
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