Relationships

Nate*, The Cab Driver

"He glanced back over his should and looked at me. "Yeah, I didn't take you for the type to attend an event like that and I've only known you for abou...
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Question of the Week: Losing Weight Resulting in N...

"The looks of intimidation and hatred I get are crazy..."...
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‘Swirling’ Guilt Can Cause Sisters to ...

We've done little discussions about the "reluctant swirler." But you probably know this girl as well as I do. She probably dated intra-racially her en...
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Godspeed: The Art of Agreeing to Disagree

The term godspeed literally means "an expression of good wishes to a person starting a journey". What kind of journey? In my case, a journey to the re...
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The Black Woman’s Bill of Rights: Gentleness...

To some people, you are a hardened, non-feminine creature and a workhorse until proven otherwise. And even when you've attempted to establish you're a...
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Video: Real Talk About Marriage

My buddy Abiola Abrams asked me to do a video about how to balance passion and kids. This will be one of two. I think it's important that unmarried pe...
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Leona’s Love Quest Part V: Determination wit...

"The disparaging reaction typically comes from unmarried women who are quick to label any single woman who expresses any effort toward finding love, m...
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Goddess of the Week: Tiara!!

Meet this twenty-something, North Carolina beauty......
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Shutting Up About Black Men (Part 2)

Why do black men continue to come up as a topic in non-black male-oriented spaces such as this one? The first part broached the issue, giving people t...
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Question of the Week: “My Fiance Wants to Jo...

Conservative white guy is worried about his black fiance wanting to join the NAACP in the wake of the Trayvon Martin shooting....
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What Actually Constitutes “Swirling”?

Who gets to make the distinctions?...
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Newsflash: Good Black Men Definitely Exist! Doesn&...

Black men don't heed that "black love" talk. You know it, I know it, and deep down the NBAB crowd knows it as well. They can grumble, holler, and stom...
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