Black Women Addicted to Drama. One Possible Reason...

I’ve been blogging on relationship issues of African American women for nearly a decade. One thing I have never quite been able to escape is cer... READ MORE

Say It Ain’t So! Nive Nulls Split Amidst Che...

Very sad news for our community. Austin Null  of the famed, “Nive Nulls,”  announced recently that, despite over a year of marriage coun... READ MORE

Patreon Perk: Meet the Lovely Kay!

I have a pretty cool perk for my $20 pledges on Patreon that help support this blog. They get featured here on the blog and since Kay is the first, I ... READ MORE

Why Are Black Women So Insecure?

Why are black women so insecure?  It’s a comment often used to criticize and marginalize us. The question is thrown around without the benefit ... READ MORE

QOTW: “I Feel Threatened By Asian Women.R...

Dear Christelyn, I first off would love to thank you for channel! I wish there was a woman like you when I was a young girl.  you embody everything I... READ MORE

Insta Couples We’re Loving This Week!

These folks have their own You Tube channel. Check them out! Getting ice cream with the kids. #swirl #swirling #teamswirl #swirlnation #swirllife #lov... READ MORE

Older Black Woman, Younger Non-Black Man…Can...

Lots of fans have asked me to address this, and at long last, here it is! https://youtu.be/jyW693SU1OM It’s a new world, folks. Follow Christely... READ MORE

More Interracial Dating in Toronto: Do THIS to Get...

As I’m learning more and more about Canada, I learning a few things about the social culture there. While interracial dating in Toronto is so co... READ MORE

Bachelorette: She Dumped Him Because He Would Have...

Alas, there were new episodes of The Bachelorette this week, but that’s good for me, because I’ve been running behind, what with all the p... READ MORE

The Four Letter Word that Makes Your Online Profil...

I get countless letters from young women who claim to have terrible luck when it comes to online dating. What’s puzzling is, upon review of thei... READ MORE

Revealed! Rihanna’s Make Out Session with Bi...

Looks like another international billionaire is appreciating the company of a black woman. Is this becoming a thing? Looks like the guy blowing up yes... READ MORE

Report: Serena Williams Set to Wed Alex Ohanian Th...

In a vivid and revealing article published in Vanity Fair magazine, Serena Williams recounts the early days of how she met her fiancé, Alexis Ohanian... READ MORE

BB&W Exclusive: Candid Interview with MAZELEE...

I met Alena and Joe (MAZELEE) while they were at the VidCon Convention in Anaheim. I absolutely love this #AMBW couple, because they are so authentic ... READ MORE

Fear of Rejection Holding You Back from Swirling?

It’s been my experience working in this space that one of the chief hesitancies black women have about dating interracially is a fear of rejecti... READ MORE