Relationships

Ama Yawson: “Why I’m Sometimes Against...

What bigoted moron could ever be against interracial dating?  Finding someone who will love you despite your physical “flaws”, idiosyncra...
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QOTW: “I’m 38, and Tired of Waiting fo...

The question: I was nervous to write to you at first. I believed all that I was raised with about finding my IBM, that I am not supposed to date outsi...
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Sigh…The World Knows How Foolish Some Black ...

I have preached, teached, and nagged for black women of all ages to embrace this…   Now before you watch the following video, I want you to...
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Can We Talk About Black Women with UnHealthy Attac...

I often get asked to review the dating profiles of black women who are on sites like InterracialDatingCentral, but most of the time, I pass on it. It&...
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Why Do White Girls Try to Set Up Their Friends wit...

It’s a question I asked Maxi’s two girlfriends this weekend when I found out the signed her up for BlackPeopleMeet. Take a listen. Have a...
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Rapper, I Heart Memphis Gets Round of Back Pats fo...

First off, I have to be honest and say that I have never heard of i Heart Memphis until today. I have also never heard the the that got him featured o...
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Grateful!!!…For that Bullet You Dodged…...

For this Thanksgiving, I thought it might be a little fun to give thanks to aallll the dudes that dogged you out, left you, cheated, used and abused y...
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Hilarious Teachable Moment from Matthew Hussey Moc...

First, I’m not even going to give a set up this video from relationship coach, Matthew Hussey. There is no intro needed.   After listening ...
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On Pleasing the BC: Damned if We Do…Damned i...

This post is not for the regulars. Just like I point out the good, I’m going to point of the bad. Not just bad, but utterly horrible. I was sent...
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Why the “Fetishizing” Argument is Such...

It has to be said. The whole concept of the mass hysteria of black female “fetishization” is a psychological tactic that is being used to ...
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Yep; That Happened. My Daughter Got Shaded Because...

Sometimes we think that the whole interracial dating issue is something that younger people don’t really think about. I mean, all that baggage f...
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Is it the Culture or the Color that’s Turnin...

  We’ve talked a lot about preferences vs. IR via serendipity. Some of us have always dated interracially and have a certain “type...
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QOTW: Sometimes, He’s Just an A**hole, Girl.

The Question: I’m struggling in how to cope in a marriage where I hear racial prejudice and insults. My husband is white, I am African American....
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Rainbeau Asks, Are Women of Color Into the Occult?

Got this interesting question from someone on our fan page: Hey everyone, I asked this in another group and didn’t really get much feedback; so ...
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