Relationships

Ladies, Let’s Do Better…Don’t Sp...

Here’s something we black women have trouble admitting–rape and molestation aside, we have 100% power on who, when, and how our wombs are ...
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Are Today’s Men Being Purposely “Femin...

As America inexplicably careens toward gender neutrality (like…why??!) because of certain “interests,” you almost have to laugh at t...
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White Man Gets Attacked for Having Black Girlfrien...

Sigh. I knew this was coming, and I’m afraid to say that we might see a lot more of this in the future. A 38-year-old white man dating a black w...
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Jacob Mason, Fetish Hysteria, and Beat Down Black ...

Over the passed few weeks I’ve had multiple messages in my inbox about up-and-coming social media celebrity, Jacob Mason–a pretty gorgeous...
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Three Types of Men Who Should Never Date Interraci...

Sometimes I get notes from non-black men who wring their hands over the prospect of dating a black woman, and often put up these roadblocks for why th...
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IDC Couple Success: Online Dating Works!

Shannon and Paul met and eventually married via InterracialDatingCentral.com. Shannon joined our site because she didn’t feel she had much choice. �...
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Ama Yawson: “Why I’m Sometimes Against...

What bigoted moron could ever be against interracial dating?  Finding someone who will love you despite your physical “flaws”, idiosyncra...
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QOTW: “I’m 38, and Tired of Waiting fo...

The question: I was nervous to write to you at first. I believed all that I was raised with about finding my IBM, that I am not supposed to date outsi...
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Sigh…The World Knows How Foolish Some Black ...

I have preached, teached, and nagged for black women of all ages to embrace this…   Now before you watch the following video, I want you to...
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Can We Talk About Black Women with UnHealthy Attac...

I often get asked to review the dating profiles of black women who are on sites like InterracialDatingCentral, but most of the time, I pass on it. It&...
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Why Do White Girls Try to Set Up Their Friends wit...

It’s a question I asked Maxi’s two girlfriends this weekend when I found out the signed her up for BlackPeopleMeet. Take a listen. Have a...
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Rapper, I Heart Memphis Gets Round of Back Pats fo...

First off, I have to be honest and say that I have never heard of i Heart Memphis until today. I have also never heard the the that got him featured o...
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Grateful!!!…For that Bullet You Dodged…...

For this Thanksgiving, I thought it might be a little fun to give thanks to aallll the dudes that dogged you out, left you, cheated, used and abused y...
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Hilarious Teachable Moment from Matthew Hussey Moc...

First, I’m not even going to give a set up this video from relationship coach, Matthew Hussey. There is no intro needed.   After listening ...
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