Relationships

Letter Writer Explains Non-Black Male Hesitancy in...

Got this note today. It’s an important reminder about why interracial dating is often more complicated for black women and non-black men, and wh...
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QOTW: Hispanic Man Hesitant to Approach Black Wome...

The Question: “Hey Christelyn just wanted some advice on how to approach black women i’m hispanic but i am mixed with white/american india...
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Wait…WHET?! Azealia Banks Dates White Guys? ...

Now…I didn’t see this coming. Looks like Azealia Banks dates white men, and prefers to do so over black men.   I would have never gue...
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QOTW: Featuring ‘Maxi Me,’ Discussing ...

Brought in heavy reinforcements on this! Here’s the question: “I’m 16 years old and I’ve never even had a boyfriend before, so...
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Carrie: “The Fling That Turned Into A Thing?”

“The Fling That Turned Into A Thing?” By Carrie Thompson For perspective on this story, make sure you first read this. He is deserving of my vag...
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Why Are “Struggle Discussions” Always ...

We’ve all heard it before. Black women swearing they won’t date interracially because they’ve bought into the notion that only a bla...
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Has Feminism Killed Our Marriage Prospects? Contro...

Since I’ve started blogging, I’ve heard lots of rumblings from young women that guys today are just…different. Dates have become ...
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Jim and Allie – Timing Is Everything

Allie, 46, and Jim, 44, met 23 years ago, when she was a recently-graduated student at the Coast Guard training center where Jim taught. At the time, ...
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Click, Date, Love: Getting the Most Out of Online ...

A few weeks ago, we announced my participation in Laurie Davis’ Click Date Love group coaching series. Since then, we’ve had three sessions, and y...
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Totally Awkward Conversation with Jay Smooth Chall...

OMG…if you haven’t yet seen this conversation between Jay Smooth, host of “Underground Railroad,” a popular radio show in New ...
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Kesha: “My Husband Was Not the Man of My Dre...

By:  Kesha Fisher He was a single man and two daughters made up my world.  We set off on a quixotic journey, bumping into love and marriage along th...
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Check Us Out: Alex Barnett and I Have Hilarious Co...

  If you haven’t yet heard of comedian, Alex Barnett, I feel sorry for all the laughs you’re missing. Alex, a lawyer by trade and a f...
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QOTW: “Should I Continue Dating Someone Who ...

From Alexa: Christelyn, I’ve been following your page for quite some time and I was wondering if you could give me some insight on how to overco...
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How to Date an Alpha Male…Do You Have What I...

*Due to the politically correct climate we live in, the author of this piece has opted to remain anonymous. First, if you’ve turned the head of ...
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