Relationships

QOTW: What It Means When Your Boyfriend Won’...

Here’s the situation: My name is [redacted] I have been dating this white guy for over three years now, I am ready to move to the next level but...
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Intermarriage By the Numbers: More Black Women are...

Last month, the Pew Research Center released new numbers about intermarriage in the United States. The numbers are rising across the board with a few ...
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So…Who’s Fault is It? 92% of Biracial ...

If you’ve been on social media long enough, and have known my tireless crusade with “No Wedding No Womb,” and trying to find solutio...
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Video: Jeff and Toni’s Wedding Recap!

I know many of you were chomping at the bit to see this, and this is the first cut. I’m the videographer and editor, so please be kind. ūüėČ &nb...
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QOTW: 40, Clueless, and Living in…Miami?!

Wait…what??! Hello Christelyn Karazi, I am a 40 year old single mom ready to mingle ( son went to college ). I have not dated in years ( literal...
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They Did It! Jeff and Toni Tie the Knot!

Ah…it was a beautiful thing to see. “EarthJeff” and his bride, Toni, exchanged vows in an adorable little chapel at The Linq Hotel, ...
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Leona’s Love Quest: High Standards-The Sequel

As a companion to my previous article about high standards, I submitted this article to the New York Times series on Modern Love; alas, I just receive...
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QOTW: “My Boyfriend Has Never Witnessed Raci...

The Question: Hello: My name is “T.”¬†I got your email from a your YouTube video: Should Black Women Marry Up. I am a black woman in an in...
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Marry Down Costs Educated Women $25K a Year. But E...

Black Enterprise¬†recently reported on a study that suggested that black women who marry down–unequally educationally and financially–are ...
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Blast from the Past: How Has Black Women’s O...

A fan found an article written in Essence magazine in 1999, exploring black women’s attitudes about interracial dating. You have to read. Then s...
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Stuff You Should Know About Your Online Dating Pro...

  Before I go into this, I just have to give an FYI…I did the following profile critique to use as an example, so please…don’t ...
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Should the Charleston Hate Crime Keep Black Women ...

  This morning, when I learned of the church shooting in Charleston, I observed several women make these comments: –“¬†You know with ...
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Video: Al Jazeera Shows NBABM Women as Doomed to S...

  Ugh…videos like these are so frustrating. The report is framing the low numbers of black women dating interracially with resistance to da...
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Video: I Am…Unbothered.

Yesterday I listened to a pretty nasty video from a black woman in the U.K. who has a HUGE problem with me advocating black women dating interracially...
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