Relationships

Azealia Banks’ New Boo is HAAAWWWRRRRTTT!!!

Say what you want about her mouth, but Azealia Banks is aesthetically cute as a button, and boy, can she pull ’em. Check out her rumored new boo...
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QOTW: Are There Any Subjects Off Limits On An Inte...

The question… Hi Christelyn, I’ve been lurking on your site and your Youtube channel for a couple of weeks now (I know, shame on me lol)....
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What Black Men Think of Natural Hair : “The ...

Despite what many people think, I have a few friends who are black men. Most of them are successful and married to white women (haha it’s the tr...
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Yes; Black Men Get Hate For Dating Interracially, ...

I’ve recently been following two stories on Madame Noire regarding black men and their dating choices. The first was a piece about a self-procla...
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Matthew Hussey Gives Hopeful Viewpoint to Single M...

We talk a lot here about how single motherhood can be a complication when it comes to dating, especially if you’ve never married the father. No ...
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Fan Bought “Swirling” Started a Journe...

I swear, it never, EVER gets old when I get notes like this… From Shanae Lamorne: I’m engaged!!!! He proposed on Easter Sunday, a beautif...
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Author Tells Women to Use Their “P*ssy Power...

I downloaded a book recently, The Power of the Pussy, by recommendation from someone on this blog. Yes; the name alone incites waves of pearl clutchin...
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Matthew Hussey Live Event Gives Female Pickup Line...

Last weekend I had the pleasure of seeing Matthew Hussey work a room. A very large room, full of adoring women in rapt attention on how this Brit can ...
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Letter Writer Explains Non-Black Male Hesitancy in...

Got this note today. It’s an important reminder about why interracial dating is often more complicated for black women and non-black men, and wh...
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QOTW: Hispanic Man Hesitant to Approach Black Wome...

The Question: “Hey Christelyn just wanted some advice on how to approach black women i’m hispanic but i am mixed with white/american india...
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Wait…WHET?! Azealia Banks Dates White Guys? ...

Now…I didn’t see this coming. Looks like Azealia Banks dates white men, and prefers to do so over black men.   I would have never gue...
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QOTW: Featuring ‘Maxi Me,’ Discussing ...

Brought in heavy reinforcements on this! Here’s the question: “I’m 16 years old and I’ve never even had a boyfriend before, so...
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Carrie: “The Fling That Turned Into A Thing?”

“The Fling That Turned Into A Thing?” By Carrie Thompson For perspective on this story, make sure you first read this. He is deserving of my vag...
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Why Are “Struggle Discussions” Always ...

We’ve all heard it before. Black women swearing they won’t date interracially because they’ve bought into the notion that only a bla...
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