Relationships

So…I Got Accosted In Cancun…

I just got back from THE BEST vacation I’ve ever had in Cancun on an all-expenses paid vacation The Hubster won from his job. Being an employee ...
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QOTW, undesirable, advice, perception, self esteem, messages, marriage, attraction, online dating, stereotypes,

QOTW: “How Do I Stop Believing I’m Und...

Hello! So, a brief description of myself. I am a young black woman, 21, in college and due to graduate soon. I have always known that I was more attra...
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wedding, inspiration, mixed marriage, traditional wedding, swirling, blended marriage, interracial marriage

Justin and Krystal – 18th Century Class and ...

  I found Krystal and Justin’s wedding on WedLuxe Magazine.  I could not take my eyes off this classy couple and their Parisian and Versa...
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AAWG, advice, dating ideas, outdoors, activities, mixed race dating, swirling, blended couples,

AAWG: Wow her with your Whiteness by Savage Tango

 her with your Whiteness by Savage Tango So, another Halloween has come and gone and I’m hoping it went well for you guys.  Did ya manage to lay t...
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On Vetting: When a Guy Expresses Doubts About Inte...

The question: Hey guys I hope you guys can give me advice on this issue I’m having. I’ve been talking to this white guy I met online. He s...
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How the ‘Black Church’ Cheated this Wo...

How Being Churchified And Church Going Limited My Dating Pool And Marriage Prospects. By Raina T. Shaw Also known as The Salon Chair “Therapist”. ...
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Jacque Reid, Tom Joyner, radio, personality, coaching, IRR dating,

Honest Question: What Do Folks Expect Quality Blac...

By now you’ve heard that I’m coaching adorable radio and television personality, Jacque Reid. We announced the endeavor, coordinated with ...
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dating, vetting, relationship advice, full disclosure, mystery, history, swirling, video, Youtube, reader question, dating white guys, questions, the past, sexual history, STDs, birth control,

On Vetting: How Men Run Game By Holding Your Past ...

He says he doesn’t want any secrets between you. He says your past doesn’t matter…but he still just wants to know. Everything. The a...
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SHARE: Dating Outside of the States

Recently, some of our readers shared some very juicy gems about their interactions and dating experiences while traveling abroad. Most important to no...
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dating, potential, black women, single women, IRR dating, Swirling, dateless, quality women, non black men

It Should Be a SIN for Women Like This to be Datel...

I am beyond disgusted at how quality, high-value black women are left withering on the vine. I just got this letter today: I’ve just stumbled up...
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Get X-Mas Money! Enter Our First BB&W “...

We’re on a mission to rebuild all the “Happy Couple” photos and stories we collected on our original Beyond Black & White fan pa...
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Neil’s Story: The Overseas Wedding that (Alm...

Hello Christelyn , this is my journey to swirling. My name is Neil and for as long as I can remember I’ve always liked black women , growing up in n...
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Late Night Man Candy Monday: Welcome to Bollywood!...

Hollywood is overrated, so I hear, it’s not like I’ve been there but what I do know is that there is a more festive and exciting place tha...
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Matthew Hussey, leona's love quest, dating ideas, real life, romance, friends, retreat, suggestions, where to meet men,

Leona’s Love Quest:  The ABC’s of Finding Lo...

By the time you read this it will be just about two months since I returned from Matthew Hussey’s High Value Woman Lifestyle Retreat. I wish I was s...
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