Relationships

blended families, children, swirling, mixed children, biracial, society, culture, racism, insensitivity, stereotypes,

08 Jul 14

That Awkward Moment When Numbskulls Assume Your Bi...

Last night, my husband Sean was holding our 16-month-old daughter Maya as we were boarding a flight from BWI to MCO. As we stepped onto the plane, one...

interracial dating, black women dating white men, Swirling, book, video, diverse dating, dating outside your race, white men, advice, question of the week, culture, society, racism, intercultural communication, biracial, blended families, dark skinned women, community, international, quality men, black women dating white men, relationship, marriage, couples, swirling, blended families, culture, society, racism, fear,

07 Jul 14

Ladies, Do NOT Date Interracially if You’re ...

A non-black man just sent me the email below regarding an exchange he had with a black woman on OKCupid that he found attractive. This woman is so def...

07 Jul 14

Man Candy Monday: Hollywood Hotties Then, and Now

What’s the saying again, “Something old, something new. Something Man Candy, just for you?” Age ain’t nothing but a number whe...

interracial, living, communities, interracial friendly, locations, real estate, living, blended couples, biracial children,

06 Jul 14

Best Cities For Interracial Dating

What are the Best cities for interracial dating & relationships? I’m working on a master list NEVER BEEN DONE before (not sure why tho) on an in...

05 Jul 14

Open Thread: “How Do I Explain My Preference...

Okay well he didn’t say that…exactly. Here’s what this 20-something white guy actually wrote… Mrs. Karazin,I’m not asham...

01 Jul 14

Austin, TX Man Asks, “Am I the Black Woman&#...

First, thanks to all the men who have been writing me lately. I’m glad you’re listening and observing. Gap, meet bridge. I got this letter...

29 Jun 14

QOTW: “Should I Move to More Interracial Rel...

People move for jobs all the time. But what about packing your bags for the chance at romance?...

24 Jun 14

Another BB&W Reader Success Story! Remember A...

Some of you might recall a reader letter from April, who wrote me back in 2013 about how this blog was a support to her as she began dating Henry, a f...

Kevin Hart, get you back, song, DBR, Real Househusbands of Hollywood, cheater, cheating, begging, guilty, promotion, public relationship, drama, gossip, loser, Robin Thicke is a creep, divorce, entertainment, music, DBR, media, couples, relationships, black women with white men, youtube, video, album,

24 Jun 14

Robin Thicke and His Very Public Attempt to Win Ba...

Robin Thicke is really, really, really serious about winning back his humiliated wife, Paula Patton with this new video, “Get You Back,” a...

23 Jun 14

Loving Day Flagship Event Recap Plus Adorable R...

If you live anywhere near the East Coast and didn’t go to the Loving Day flagship event in New York City earlier this month, you might want to k...

100% Mixed, Phillippe Koo, Chinese, German, model, video host, mixed dating, asian men, black women, biracial, marriage, couples, dating, black women dating non black men,

20 Jun 14

Who Knew Asian Men Were This Sexy? More of Philipp...

My new friend, Philippe Koo is truly one of the most beautiful Asian men I’ve ever seen in my life. His father is Chinese and his mother is Germ...

Essence, Dr. Farrah Gray, Black men, haters, marriage, Eve, Maximillion Cooper, swirling, media, families, blended couples, engagements, culture,

20 Jun 14

Utter Hypocrisy: Let’s Talk About All the Du...

Sigh…a segment of people invested in keeping black women in an inferior position (and I say “people,” because this group is composed...

18 Jun 14

Black American Matriarch Set Roots In New Zealand

Elizabeth Cabell American slavery left an unwitting legacy on most of us descended from Africans. The sad thing is that most of us don’t know our hi...