Relationships

Astrid & Maher “L’amore est eternal”

Michelle Calloway of The Swirl World posted a photograph of Astrid and Maher on her Pinterest board.  It left me wanting more so I had to go fishing ...
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Eve Becomes “Mrs. Maximillion Cooper”

This from People magazine Rapper and actress Eve married her fiancé, Maximillion Cooper, on Saturday. The Barbershop star and the British designer an...
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How Can You Be Sexy If You Believe in No Sex Befor...

Matthew Hussey takes on women who want to save themselves for marriage. He’s got an interesting perspective on sexually inactive women and how t...
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Are You Going to the NYC Loving Day Celebration or...

I’ll be attending the 11th annual Loving Day celebration in New York City this coming Saturday. I hope to see some our regular readers there sin...
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QOTW: “How Do I Protect My Girlfriend From R...

The question… “Here’s my dilemma: To make a long story short, one of my two sisters, my father, and I are the only three in my entir...
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Another You Tube Couple Shares Their Story: Val &#...

After our first feature of one of the fabulous You Tube couples that follow this blog, I got this note… “We are Val & Andrew. I’...
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Let Um Know…. I’m Not Here for THAT!!

Time for a public service announcement from the good people that occupy the head space of Tracy Renee Jones. Read for clarity and content if you never...
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Man Candy Monday: Enough to Share, Sexy Twins For ...

You ever been somewhere and seen a hot guy? Then as you gaze another hot guy shows up, and then you do a double take as you realize the hot guys are T...
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Congrats, David and Iman, for 22 Years of Wedded B...

I remember when it was announced that David Bowie and Iman were a thing, and that that grew into a marriage. It was the early 90’s, and interrac...
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Interracial Couple Speaks Candidly About Public On...

It’s funny. I never really know who all follows me on my You Tube channel…apparently there’s quite a lot…and when I get a free...
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EarthJeff: Swirling on Planet Earth Part 14 – Th...

  Yes, silly old EarthJeff is back.  Life is not about the destination, it is about the journey.  While I hate quoting Miley Cyrus… it is abo...
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QOTW: White Woman Asks, “How Can I Get My Fa...

While this question is from a white woman dating a black man, the advice is universal for all interracial combinations. We dedicate an entire chapter ...
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Man Candy Monday: Sexy Men Doing Yoga

I must admit, I like a man that is in tune with his body. Athletes and health conscious individuals are more than likely to have what I desire, namely...
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And This is Why We Still Talk About Black Men On B...

People often wonder why this site sometimes discusses the relationships black men have with black women. The criticism is often, “If you’v...
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