Relationships

True or False? “White Guys Only Date Black W...

Are white guys giving their best years to white women, then after the kids and divorce, moving towards something different and new?...
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BB&W Online Dating Challenge: Deconstruct My ...

I am active on four online dating sites: POF.com, Match.com, AfroRomance.com, and SeniorsMeet.com. In this post, we are going to critique the main tex...
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On Vetting: “How the Heck Do You Do That?!&#...

I got this letter a while back and I didn't answer right away because it's such an important question, and I just don't take this stuff lightly. ...
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Swirling and Marriage: Themba and Caspar

Simply stunning......
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My Afternoon with Matthew Hussey: “Self-Wor...

A BB&W intern goes to Matthew Hussey's online event...and got a HUG!! ...
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All The People Crying About Letters And Conspiracy...

Being aware of the tricks and attempts at manipulation sent your way is certainly a must, but this doesn't require you get angry or fearful. Simply si...
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Abiola Abrams and Mollena Williams Address Now-Inf...

A boatload of you asked me to address the letter published in Essence.com from a black woman who alleged that her white husband called her racial slur...
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Question of the Week: Rainbeau Needs Advice on Dat...

A 24-year-old rainbeau asks my advice on dating older black women...let the discussions begin!!...
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Doctors in Love! Swirling Success Story!

Got this note and I was tickled pink! Amazeballs and awesome sauce!...
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Love Class! Dating Out of the Box: Interracial, In...

BB&W special guest, Abrams discusses Interracial Relationships, Interfaith Love and Online Dating with Author Damona Hoffman, a columnist for JDate a...
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Swirling Women History Makers Vice Admiral Michell...

In honor of Women's History Month, I wanted to profile a special swirling black woman. I could not think of a more fitting role model, outstanding le...
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Swirling After Forty: One Woman’s Success St...

"To the single women over 40 who are reading this: Don't give up. If you just believe that you will find someone in your life, you will. I truly be...
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A White Guy’s Honest Opinion About Black Wom...

Here's a warning: Ladies who are doggedly defensive about anyone ever saying anything critical about their physique might want to scroll on to the nex...
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Hypergamy and Black Women Marrying Up

I think my blog, The New Elegant Black Woman, is all about hypergamy and becoming a high quality woman, because it feels great to be one and because i...
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