Relationships

Black Women Who are Acceptable in Film and TV

Why are movie producers okay with pairing Naomie and Zoe again and again with White men (and an Asian in Ninja Assassin) in blockbuster mainstream fil...
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Question of the Week: Self-Proclaimed “Redne...

"I'm scared myself. My girlfriend is scared for me as well, as she's dated outside of her race before and has been tempered to the stares that an inte...
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What Black Men Say When Black Women Aren’t A...

What do men talk about when women aren't around? Is the conversation different based on the races, ages and culture of the men? Tracy has the inside s...
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For the Fellas Hot for Dating Black Girls, Take Th...

Not sure if you ladies are aware of the INCREDIBLE amount of non-black men lurking on this blog. Why are they here? Research and intelligence gatherin...
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Leona’s Love Quest Part XX- The Cost of Being S...

In such a marriage and family-oriented society, I don’t see any kind of accommodations for singles happening anytime soon and black women are still ...
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Damaged vs. Damaged Beyond Repair vs. Work-in-Prog...

Question: What are some other ways to differentiate between someone who is "damaged beyond repair" and a "work in progress"?...
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Swirling in History Part Five: Agatha Alphosin Gan...

Blasian love in the 19th Century......
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Serious Question: Why Can White Women Get Married ...

They marry, divorce, and get remarried faster than a jackrabbit getting a quicky behind the bushes. Why?...
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Question of the Week: Twenty-Something Law Student...

She is law school, and is seeing many of her white schoolmates dating, mating and beyond. But there's only slim pickings for her....
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Monogamy Isn’t A Condom: What You Don’...

It isn't enough to pretend that your being with one guy is enough to save your life and your womb. Because it's not. Get tested often, and always use ...
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New Study Suggests Pretty Women Have Less Casual S...

Welp, here's some new study that seems to inherently make a whole lot of sense. Just like the study that says people who eat real vegetables are healt...
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Ali and Lissette Gonzalez: Color Blind and Valenti...

Take a look at this stunning family......
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Swirling on Planet Earth Part 7: What is Intimacy...

I am not talking about sex, and those elements in that process of two people experiencing the physical aspects of enjoying each other as man and woman...
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Oaktown Paul Reports Thriving BW/WM Meet Up Group ...

Swirling made another small step forward this weekend, when our Meet-up group (Sisters With White Misters) met at Rassela’s Jazz club in San Francis...
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