Relationships

The Race Factor: Are You Out-Filtering Good Prospe...

Online dating has allowed millions to make connections with people they may have otherwise never met. There’s a website for virtually every intere...
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Many Tips about Marriage are Wrong, Says World-Ren...

“Much of the advice people get about their marriage problems is wrong. It sounds good. It makes sense. The problem is: it usually doesn’t work,�...
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Asian Mothers are CRAY!! Second Story I’ve H...

What's up with the suicide threats? Like...REALLY?!...
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Question of the Week: “How Do I Avoid the Fr...

How brainwashed some of us are......
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Why We Don’t Talk About Black Men: ...

I think in order to better understand why black men as a topic come up in BW-centric and BWE spaces, you must understand why they do not come up. ...
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True or False? “White Guys Only Date Black W...

Are white guys giving their best years to white women, then after the kids and divorce, moving towards something different and new?...
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BB&W Online Dating Challenge: Deconstruct My ...

I am active on four online dating sites: POF.com, Match.com, AfroRomance.com, and SeniorsMeet.com. In this post, we are going to critique the main tex...
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On Vetting: “How the Heck Do You Do That?!&#...

I got this letter a while back and I didn't answer right away because it's such an important question, and I just don't take this stuff lightly. ...
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Swirling and Marriage: Themba and Caspar

Simply stunning......
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My Afternoon with Matthew Hussey: “Self-Wor...

A BB&W intern goes to Matthew Hussey's online event...and got a HUG!! ...
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All The People Crying About Letters And Conspiracy...

Being aware of the tricks and attempts at manipulation sent your way is certainly a must, but this doesn't require you get angry or fearful. Simply si...
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Abiola Abrams and Mollena Williams Address Now-Inf...

A boatload of you asked me to address the letter published in Essence.com from a black woman who alleged that her white husband called her racial slur...
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Question of the Week: Rainbeau Needs Advice on Dat...

A 24-year-old rainbeau asks my advice on dating older black women...let the discussions begin!!...
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