Congrats are in order! Our very own Eugenia is exp...

Taking a break from the ratchetness of the KimYe spawn, I'm tickled to announce that our very own Eugenia is expecting a child with her HUSBAND. You m... READ MORE

Question of the Week: Pro-Black Girl Feels Conflic...

Can you advocate for your people if you date interracially?... READ MORE

Commentary on the Crooked Room: You Mad Sapphire? ...

Ever had someone declare your anger? Without your input? Well, that's because you're an angry black woman, a Sapphire to be exact. Melissa Harris-Perr... READ MORE

Why I don’t call myself a “fe...

"I want no part of any group, system or structure that sells the lie of being equal partners in striving to overcome inequality and oppression while ... READ MORE

The “White Guy Pass”: Does It Exist?

Do YOU think "white guy passes" exist? Do you give them out? Have you had WM expecting a "pass" from you? ... READ MORE

Good News! Another BB&W Engagement!

I am THRILLED to announce that Shaun Brown has asked his girlfriend, Victoria for her hand in marriage, and she has accepted! ... READ MORE

Mammy, The Mule and Equally Yoked: Black Women As ...

I used the term 'equally yoked' for no other reason then the fact that I can't fucking stand the damn phrase. When I hear anyone say it, and I recall ... READ MORE

Hot Abercrombie Guy Tells of “Awkward”...

Find out what happens when I open my big mouth...... READ MORE

So What’s It Like To Be Black, A Woman, And ...

What was life like for this black woman married into the Italian Cosa Nostra?... READ MORE

College Girl Asks, “Why Do I Always Have to ...

Here's my take...... READ MORE

Question of the Week: “do you think it’...

Her family is putting on the pressure, and it's not helping that she's not getting attention with the men she desires.... READ MORE

On DOMA: Are We Defending Marriage or Hate?

Does marriage really need defending? And, if so, from what? Other kinds of marriage, like maybe interracial marriage? Sounds a lot like hate to me...... READ MORE

Why Are These Bitter Chicks Hating On Michael Ealy...

News about "Think Like a Man" star Michael Ealy secretly married a non-black woman was posted today on the Essence Facebook fan page. My girl Rasheda ... READ MORE

SwirlQueen: Blasian Love in Asia

It may surprise some that American sisters and African sisters are also living happily in Korea with their husbands and children.... READ MORE