Relationships

Romancing an Introvert: Striking Up a Conversatio...

I’ve recently come to terms with the fact that I am an awkward, black, female introvert....
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Vietnamese Guy Gives Real Talk on His Blasian Rela...

You wondered. We delivered....
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Examining the Trend: The REAL Reasons Why Black Wo...

Study Says White men (still) view black women through the lens of the Mammy, the Jezebel, and the Welfare Queen....
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Don’t Be Duped By Damaged Males: Not All...

Even if I were to believe that all men were sexual-harassing creeps at heart, why would I accept this as a reality that is not worth changing? Clearly...
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White Guy Asks, “Am I Dating the Wrong Black...

I got this note from someone who reached out to me on Facebook. Here goes......
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Black, White, Other, DBR IS DBR IS DBR (Damaged Be...

Black women who advocate for other black women to expand their dating pools to include all races are often accused of bashing black men; as some are q...
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EarthJeff: Swirling on Planet Earth Part 6: “Dif...

One evening Bee and I were returning from a dinner out. I was walking her to her front door when we heard “Bang… bang….. Bang-bang-bang!” Th...
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Commentary on the Crooked Room: Mammy, Oh Mammy, W...

In the “crooked room,” we've met the Jezebel. Now, let's meet her polar opposite: the Mammy....
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I Love Men….But The Question Is……...

Do you love men? And if not....why?...
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Another White Guy Spills It: A Tale of a Blind Dat...

This is a true story about a white guy who never dated interracially, had a somewhat myopic view on race relations, and never dreamed in a million yea...
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Ever Wonder What White Guys Say About Black Women ...

I got this note today from Kevin Pyne, a Facebook friend of mine who's a white guy and mostly dates black women. I think you'll find this very interes...
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New Study Reveals Black Women Viewed as “Mas...

A study released by Columbia Business School revealed that race is often assigned a gender along a spectrum. Black people are viewed as "masculine," r...
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Dreaming of Getting That Ring This Season? Must Re...

If you haven't cracked open an issue of Wedding Nouveau, here's a taste of what you're missing....
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Leona’s Love Quest Part XVIII-Happy Holidays fr...

“I really hate this time of year- by which I mean, Thanksgiving to Valentine's day.” is what one of my closest and most cynical friends posted as...
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