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Dear Penny: What tips do you have for a marriage m...

Dear Penny, I wanted to ask a question about getting back into the dating game after a long hiatus. What’s the best way to start dating again after ...
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Colorism: Are We Overplaying It?

Before I get into the meat of this blog, let me address a few things: Do I believe colorism is real? Yes. Do I believe colorism is a problem in the Bl...
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Dear Penny: How can I get back in the dating game ...

Dear Penny, I ran across your post and decided to ask a few questions. My 45th birthday is coming up and I wanted to start dating again. I have been d...
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Dear Penny: How do I date as an introverted black ...

Thanks for submitting your questions, readers! See below for my response 🙂 Dear Penny, I live in Washington, DC.  I have been out of the dating sc...
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“If you’re so happy swirling, why do y...

I had the honor of having one of my blogs reposted on Lipstick Alley, a gossip site that largely caters to black women. It even was a trending topic f...
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QOTW: My Daughter’s Father Doesn’t Wan...

I received this note from a fan… Hi Christelyn! I need some advice…So I have a 6 year old daughter & we live in a majority white commu...
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QOTW: “How Can I Help My Mother Get Over Her...

Got this note from a 24 year old concerned daughter… Hi Christelyn, I am currently in Las Vegas with my mom and last night while we were watchin...
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What I Means When a Guy You Just Met Sends You Por...

It happens more than you think, and there’s a reason why some men do this. https://youtu.be/8hHcif6NdUI When a guys sends you porn or inappropri...
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QOTW: Do You Think You Feel Entitled to More Than ...

Multiple kids, but wants a hot single guy. Overweight with man boobs, but wants a Playboy model. Never finished college, wants someone who makes eleve...
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QOTW: “How Can I Support My People in an Int...

The note… I’m a 27y/o stay at home wife/new mom, I’ve been subscribed to your channel for a few years now. I am married to a Ukraini...
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BB&W Success! Here’s What Happens When ...

Just this morning I got this note, and I smiled from ear to ear. Hello again! First of all I’d like to send a million thank you’d to you a...
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QOTW: “How Can I Feel Good Enough?”

The Question… Hey Christelyn, Im Kassandre & I discovered you on YouTube and I always enjoy watching your videos! You are so gifted and very...
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QOTW: Her White Husband Called Her the “N-Wo...

Hi, I am writing to you because I need some advice. I admire you and look up to you as a role model; like my mother. My husband who is white and I (bl...
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QOTW: Black Woman Insecure About the White Women I...

The question: I am a 53 yr. old African-American woman. I recently married a Caucasian man, who is also 53. We have been married 7 months. I have neve...
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