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QOTW: Boyfriend Pushing His Girl for Sex

“I’m with my girlfriend for 1 year now and we didn’t had sex yet…. She is muslim and also a rape victim but it seems that she ...
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QOTW: White Girls Think They’re the Best?!

The question: Me and my girlfriend, let’s call her Lucy, have been dating for about a year. We’ve been pretty happy together, not that man...
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QOTW: “My HIV Positive Best Friend Keeps Hav...

The Question: “I have been having an issue that I can’t seem to figure out a solution for even though it should be common sense for a pers...
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21, Pregnant with Second Child, Wants to Swirl?!

This letter appeared in my inbox: Hi, I’m a 21 year old black female who swirled once when I was in high school and became pregnant by the white...
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QOTW: BW Upset Because Her White Female Friends Pu...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6_1xunrd79g Okay fam, what say you?...
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QOTW: Would You Date a 20 Year Old White Bisexual ...

The Question: Dear Chistelyn, I am a 20 year-old white male from New York and a junior in college. Since attending University and being exposed to peo...
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QOTW: “Should I Stay Friends w/ Someone Who ...

Got this note from a You Tube fan of mine… My take.. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ygRh64j5jyQ...
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QOTW: “Is the White Guy I’m Seeing Abu...

The question: My name is Rose (not my real name) and I would appreciate your advice on a relationship I’m currently in. I’m a fairly new s...
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QOTW: “Am I Racist Because I DON’T Wan...

Sometimes I get the most absurd questions… Thanks for the great videos…very educational 🙂 I have a question. As a white male from the S...
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QOTW: “How Can I Stop Caring What Other Peop...

The Question: Dear Christelyn: I am a 26 year old graduate student from Chicago whom is stuck in a pickle. Apparently. I have been having a strong in...
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QOTW: “Am I Too Young for Online Dating?R...

The Question: Hey Christleyn, First let me say thank you for all that you do. It’s been a long road for me to become fully comfortable with interrac...
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QOTW: “My White Boyfriend Doesn’t Want...

Buckle up, family. This one is a doozy. The Letter: now, i have been dating an amazing guy for a little over 4 years now. we’ve had our ups and ...
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QOTW: Do Rainbeaus Go For Bald/Short-Haired Women?

Interesting question.     Weigh in on your thoughts on this!...
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QOTW: 17 Year Old Traveling to UK…Desperate ...

The Question: Hi Christelyn, My name is Kiara, I’m 17 and I just have to say I am big fan of yours, for 2 years actually! You have given me insi...
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