Question of the Week

QOTW: “How Do I Compete With The Mixed Girls...

The Question: Thanks for reading this in advance. I love what you do. I’m just a black girl who realized that I’m really attracted to guys outside...
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QOTW: “Do Black Women Like White Guys with B...

The Question: I am a white man interested in interracial dating. Though I have been on dates with black women, I have not been in a serious relationsh...
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Online Dating: “Anyone But a Black Woman?...

Online dating companies that allow you to tick the boxes of your racial preferences often leave black women with the short end of the stick. For a var...
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QOTW: “I’m 38, and Tired of Waiting fo...

The question: I was nervous to write to you at first. I believed all that I was raised with about finding my IBM, that I am not supposed to date outsi...
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QOTW: “I’m a 26-Year-Old Virgin”

Hello, Mrs. K, I’m Chris (please don’t say my name, say something like “random white guy” or whatever, instead, please? lol Th...
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QOTW: Should a Woman Ever Compete for a Man?

The situation: ” I was interested in one man who seemed incredible. Then another started competing with me over him. I asked him to be honest wi...
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QOTW: Latino Man Wonders Why Black Women are Uncom...

The question and comment: I watched your videos on the white guy who only wanted slender but darker black women, and the other where white or maybe n...
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When are You Too Old to Live At Home?

This question came up while I was answering a QOTW, in which a 29-year-old woman was bemoaning her inability to date properly because her parents woul...
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QOTW: Can an ‘Atheist’ Date Black Wome...

The Question: Hey Christelyn, I recently found your YouTube web videos and have been watching them steadily to gain insight into the world of interrac...
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QOTW: Advice on How Two Shy People Can Start Getti...

I got two similar letters recently related to shyness. One from a young black woman, the other from a young, white college student. Dear Christelyn, M...
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QOTW: “Are Older Black Women Resistant to In...

The question… My question is I’m a mid 40’s divorced white male. I love all women but have always preferred black women. Im planning...
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QOTW: What It Means When Your Boyfriend Won’...

Here’s the situation: My name is [redacted] I have been dating this white guy for over three years now, I am ready to move to the next level but...
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QOTW: “My Boyfriend Has Never Witnessed Raci...

The Question: Hello: My name is “T.” I got your email from a your YouTube video: Should Black Women Marry Up. I am a black woman in an in...
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Stuff You Should Know About Your Online Dating Pro...

  Before I go into this, I just have to give an FYI…I did the following profile critique to use as an example, so please…don’t ...
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