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QOTW: “Men Stare, But Don’t Make a Mov...

The Question: What does it mean when men stare at you without smiling? This happens often to me, and i’m not doing anything out of the ordinary ...
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QOTW: “Should I Worry If the White Guy Macki...

Got this note from a friend and fan of BB&W…  “What do you think of it when white guys pursue Black women but don’t have ANY BL...
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“Did This White Guy Use Me for Sex?” Y...

I received this note on my You Tube channel this morning, and it was so candid and so typical of how today’s hook-up culture has got women all m...
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QOTW: “Am I Wrong to EXPLICITLY Exclude Blac...

Hi Christelyn,   I have been following this website for a little while now, and im happy to know that there is a support group for those who want to ...
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And We Wonder Why More Non-Black Men Don’t A...

One of the main challenges I have as an advocate for black women in interracial relationships is that many of my readers say white men just don’...
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Is It Okay to Discourage Your Daughters from Datin...

Hey Christelyn I have a question for you. It’s something that I have been concerned with for a while and since you have daughters I thought I wo...
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QOTW: “Will I Ever Get a Date…Ever?!&#...

The note: Hi Christelyn,  I am a fan of your website and have liked it on Facebook, so I see regular updates on every venture you deign to put up. I ...
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(Bonus) QOTW: “How Can I Talk About My Cultu...

Hello Christelyn, I’ve been seeing my boyfriend for about 8 months now.  We are very much in love.  I’ve met most of his family, his 21 ...
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QOTW: College Guy Asks, “How Do I Date a Bla...

Hello Mrs. Karazin, I have recently realized that I am deeply attracted to black women on every level, so much so that they are my preference for all ...
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QOTW: “How Do I Tell My Girlfriend I Love He...

This note made me go “AWWWW!!!” Dear Ms. Karazin, I am writing to you as a young “white” boy of 18 years (though I only ackno...
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QOTW: “Help! My White Friends Ask My Black G...

How many us have felt like you’ve had to be the ambassador of all black people when you’re around people of other races? On guy wrote me,...
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(Bonus) QOTW: Black Women, Multiple Children, and ...

Writer: Hey my name is “Sue” I’m a black female live in St.Louis Mo I have had bad relationship with black men so I decided to date ...
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QOTW: White Guy, 51, Ready to Get His Swirl OnR...

The question: Just wanted to say thank you for your advice on fyooz for non-black men on dating or even just letting a black woman know that I’m...
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Open Thread: Reader Questions Her Commitment to &#...

Some people wonder why this blog continues to talk about black men in reference to black women dating interracially. It would seem at the surface, tha...
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