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QOTW: Hispanic Man Hesitant to Approach Black Wome...

The Question: “Hey Christelyn just wanted some advice on how to approach black women i’m hispanic but i am mixed with white/american india...
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QOTW: Featuring ‘Maxi Me,’ Discussing ...

Brought in heavy reinforcements on this! Here’s the question: “I’m 16 years old and I’ve never even had a boyfriend before, so...
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Carrie: “The Fling That Turned Into A Thing?”

“The Fling That Turned Into A Thing?” By Carrie Thompson For perspective on this story, make sure you first read this. He is deserving of my vag...
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Has Feminism Killed Our Marriage Prospects? Contro...

Since I’ve started blogging, I’ve heard lots of rumblings from young women that guys today are just…different. Dates have become ...
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Young, Beautiful, Sexy, Talented, Accomplished and...

Both Fawn Stone and Lakesha Yvette Walker were featured as singles on Interracial Marriage and Family, formerly Swirling and Marriage.  I have not be...
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UK Girl’s Response to Skinny Pickings for Sw...

Hey there! I’m EmpressNK, a 30 something woman living and working in London. As you can see from my picture, I’m tall (6 feet in flats), and wear ...
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Here’s Another Rainbeau Who Just Came Out of...

On the surface Beyond Black & White might seem like a chick hangout. Bet you didn’t know that 30% of our readers are men. And why are they h...
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(Bonus) QOTW: “How Can I Talk About My Cultu...

Hello Christelyn, I’ve been seeing my boyfriend for about 8 months now.  We are very much in love.  I’ve met most of his family, his 21 ...
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QOTW: College Guy Asks, “How Do I Date a Bla...

Hello Mrs. Karazin, I have recently realized that I am deeply attracted to black women on every level, so much so that they are my preference for all ...
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The Importance of Little Mystery: Would You Click...

There’s a saying that familiarity breeds contempt. While that’s an arguable point, a little mystery when it comes to attracting potential ...
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Ask a White Guy: The Online Dating Quandary

We are inaugurating a new occasional feature here at Beyond Black and White called “Ask a White Guy.” This is your chance to ask the one, ...
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Two BB&W Fans Sitting in a Tree…Real Li...

Just go this message from one of our regular fans: How are you? Ever since I found your blog a few months ago, I must say that I have loved reading it...
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New Anti-Swirling Meme: “How Can You Oppose ...

I’ve been seeing the following bit of stupid making its way around the web at an increased clip. The people who are desperate to guilt-trip blac...
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QOTW: White Guy, 51, Ready to Get His Swirl OnR...

The question: Just wanted to say thank you for your advice on fyooz for non-black men on dating or even just letting a black woman know that I’m...
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