It’s the ultimate irony when a black woman feels empowered to reach the highest echelons of academia yet feels so powerless when it comes to dat...
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Author’s Note: What you are about to read may bruise your ego. Hard truths are being told here, and while you might wail that the injustice of w...
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One of the chief fears I hear from people curious about interracial dating is that is rejection. Non-black men, who’ve probably heard from one l...
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#InterracialRelationshipsAre4BlackMen. At least that’s what Cory Alexander Haywood would like for us to believe, because hell, only black men, i...
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There’s very few letters I get that move me to immediate action, but this one did. Once you read it you’ll understand why. I bolded the mo...
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I’m black, but now I have “white people problems”… My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over 2 years. He (47) and I (44) are divorced....
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A little something me and my writing partner noticed while doing promotion for SWIRLING was that most (bordering on all) of the white guys we saw with...
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By Ashley One perfect summer night in June, I stood on the rooftop of an exclusive hotel in West Hollywood at a swanky event. At first, I made it a pr...
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Okay, to show you all just how shallow one needs to be in order to identify, process and discard men, I give you Exhibit A. Upen Patel is a hot, gorge...
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Got this question from a subscriber on my You Tube channel. She seemed pretty desperate so I moved her to the front of the queue… When do you th...
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60 Days of Dating By Ashley After a considerable hiatus, I decided to throw myself back into the dating world. Thanks to social media apps like Tinde...
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