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04 May 14

Man Candy Monday: Long Hair, Don’t Care

I love men of all shapes and sizes. Though you can usually catch a well groomed man on my arm I do hold a place in my peripheral for those who forgo c...
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04 May 14

Femininity Series Part II: Why Black Women Aren...

Not long ago a study released by Stephen Wu and Paul Hagstrom, both professors of economics at Hamilton College, revealed that black women aren’...
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29 Apr 14

Happy Humpday: A Tiny Ember or a Raging Inferno (D...

Congratulations! You’ve made it to midweek. Only a few more days to go. So since you’ve got some time on your hands and may find yourself ...
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28 Apr 14

Whorish NAACP Willing to “Forgive” Don...

I have lost the last atom of respect for the organization my father was a member of–the NAACP. Apparently they are willing to “forgiveR...
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28 Apr 14

Monday Man Candy: April Showers Bring May Flowers

The birds are enthusiastically chirping each morning. The days are a little longer and the natives are wearing less clothes. Indeed, Spring is in the ...
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28 Apr 14

My Thoughts About Donald Sterling and His Wish to ...

So the trolls were on our fan page full force when the news broke that Los Angeles Clippers owner, Donald Sterling, was caught on tape saying he didn&...
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24 Apr 14

BB&W Special Guest Dishes on Her Experience a...

Race-Based Dating? I’m a black woman who has always been attracted to guys of different races, but growing up in a segregated city in the Midwest, t...
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24 Apr 14

Don’t Come for Lupita! #AshyLarryBoyBands Th...

Yeah. So, deep in the midst of an international Black woman celebration comes hecklers and haters aiming their teef sucking and unsolicited opinions a...
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23 Apr 14

RANT: I Am So SICK of Black Women Throwing THEMSEL...

I’ll admit it. I watch car crashes and train wrecks on Facebook. I lurk on so-called “black empowerment” pages ran by people who thi...
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22 Apr 14

As If! Michael Baisden Asks Why More Black Women D...

Someone tagged me on this Facebook question radio personality, Michael Baisden posed… When I read it I almost couldn’t believe the questio...
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18 Apr 14

Tell Um Why You Mad, Hun….

You know what I don’t believe in…….? Being quiet when I’m pissed off or done wrong. There. I said it… I could give a fly...
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17 Apr 14

Sad News: Former BB&W ‘Hottie’ Su...

I received some devastating news from my friend, Niki Chambers, who told me that my long-time Facebook friend and former “Hottie of the Week,...
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15 Apr 14

Chef Bob: Alaskan Snow Crab Pasta Primavera

Alaskan Snow Crab Pasta Primavera Serves 24. Having a party, or just want to impress your friends?  This is the ultimate party food. A fresh veggie ...
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15 Apr 14

Snow Be Damned!! Container Gardening 101

CONTAINER GARDENING 101 I just thought I would write a quick article to answer this reader’s question and for any one else out there who is inte...
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