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Watching “Good Times” as an Adult Help...

Don’t ask me how it happened, but channel surfing today landed me on Good Times. I was initially excited…I remembered all the words to the...
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No Blog Post Today But…Open Thread

I’ll leave you in quiet contemplation as you look upon Marz, our family dog. This is the look on my face right now because my brain is fried. I ...
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Better Ways to Manage Your Weight

Some people it, seems, have a gift of eating anything they want without it showing up as fat pockets in all the wrong places on their body. While othe...
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What It’s Like to Survive a Hurricane

Written by James Bagget, a member of our community. After reading this you may want to checkout his campaign to help the island community. https://www...
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Forget the ‘Tragic Mulatto,’ This Redd...

As a blogger in the interracial marriage space, I’ve heard all sorts of rumors about other cultures and races here in America, with all sorts of...
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Unpaid Writer Invoices at Ebony Tell an Uncomforta...

An an article titled, I’m a Black Writer Suing Ebony for Unpaid Work. It’s Doesn’t Feel Good, a well-understood and uncomfortable tr...
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5 Simple Ways To Save Money During A Move

It is expensive to move, but it doesn’t have to be as expensive as you might think. Whether you’re moving across town or out of the state or count...
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DeMario the Loser Highlights Black Male Entitlemen...

In a move so blatantly hypocritical, DeMario, the cad of last season’s Bachelorette featuring Rachel Lindsey, the first black bachelorette, sugg...
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QOTW: “Should I Stop IR Because Of Bad Sex?&...

This was quite the interesting Question of the Week: Hello. I hope this correspondence finds you well. Longtime follower of your blog and vlogs but fi...
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The ONE Thing That Transformed My Body in my 40...

Yesterday was my 44th birthday. I can’t believe it. I remember when a woman in her 40’s was on her way to being over the hill, less desire...
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Three Reasons Your Online Dating Profile Sucks.

I get so many private notes from fans about how they’ve tried EVERYTHING and STILL can get bites on online dating sites. Since it’s becomi...
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Very Smart Brothers Addresses “Negro Bed Wen...

Negro Bed Wenching. It’s a term that’s been used in recent years to disparage black women like us who date interracially. But like the wor...
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23 Year Old Aspiring Police Officer Hesitates to D...

The Question: Hey there, I see your videos sometimes on youtube and the videos attract me becayse I’m a white man that is only interested in bei...
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Here’s What Happened When I Finally Tried He...

I first heard about henna during my nascent natural hair days, and haunted psychologist/hair guru Curly Nikki. She raved about the virtues of henna, h...
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