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Episode Two of “Swirlr” is Here!

Sorry for the delay, folks. The editors are, well…very persnickety. In this episode, we follow the men and women we picked as good potential mat...
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Video: Singer Dencia Says on Camera, “White ...

Ugh. Every time I hear this woman talk I like her less. Not only is she snappy and catty, that ridiculous blond wig and balloon boobs speaks for thems...
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Big, Bold and Beautiful: I’m Loving NeNe Lea...

I don’t know how you feel about NeNe Leakes, or if you even follow the reality show fodder enough to know who she is. But there is one thing tha...
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It’s Here! The First Episode of “Swirl...

Sorry for the delay, but worry not, lovelies…here’s the first episode. I had a lot of fun with Kurt and Quintana. Both are young, and both...
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Dear Black People, Can We Support More Songs Like ...

Okay I’m loving Pharrel right now. He killed it at the Oscars last night, and I loved how Lupita jumped in to get her grove on! Yes; Pharrel loo...
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What’s In A Name?

From time to time we discuss names black Americans give their children.  I have seen some pretty outlandish names encroached upon innocent children ...
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Video: “Black Women Get a Special Kind of Sh...

Check out my interview with Nikki Woods, producer for Tom Joyner TV and Black America Web, and I get pretty real about the challenges that black women...
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Praise Jesus! Black Women Leaving the Church for S...

I ran across news of the book, “The Ebony Exodus Project: Why Some Black Women Are Walking out on Religion—and Others Should Too” in on...
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Video: Black Girl Gets the Princess Treatment, Mar...

I just got an email from the bride in this video, and one look completely took my breath away. She was treated how I hope every black woman in the wor...
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Christelyn Karazin Addresses Critics of Her Interr...

My, my, my. It seems to be that there’s some folks really feeling some kinda way about my promotion of interracial relationships with black wome...
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Issa Ray Pisses off the Religious Innanets With &...

I adore satire, when done right, it causes equal parts confusion and introspection. In my opinion, the best statements are those done with a grain of ...
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Sexy New IR Video By Incubus frontman Brandon Boyd...

Chile… Ya’ll we’re everywhere....
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Video: Matthew Hussey Schools You On How to Meet 1...

I can’t tell you how many stories I get on email and via our fan page from women who want to meet quality men but don’t or won’t do ...
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Video: (most) Black Women Aren’t Sex-Starved...

This note and subsequent video speaks to all the mouth-breathing miscreants who think black women are all sex-crazed thirsties looking for crumbs....
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