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Couple Crush! Katie and Philippe: A Strong and Uni...

In this article, we will continue to share the story of our first couple from France. Thank you, Katie and Philippe, for doing this interview with me....
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Couple Crush! Katie and Philippe: He Found His Bla...

In this article, we will welcome our first couple from France. Katie  has graciously agreed to discuss her marriage with Philippe. I hope you enjoy t...
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At 46, So Many Lessons…

Next week I’ll be 46. And you know what? I’m sooo good with it. I’ve learned so much, and I still have so much more to learn. Here’s 10 Things...
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Trini and Jay’s Relationship Building

What challenges have you faced?  I have one crazy sibling who I feel is ‘Americanized’ in not necessarily the ‘best’ way. Other than that, wi...
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S. Helena and Naveen, It was Fate

I had the opportunity to interview S. Helena on her three-year marriage with Naveen. Some of you may remember her from one of Christelyn’s in-depth ...
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Pink Pill Spotlight: Naomi’s Take, Part 2

In this interview, we will be continuing our first Pink Pill Spotlight. We will explore tips and tricks while on the date. Many thanks to Naomi for su...
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Pink Pill for College Girls: Your Degree CAN Keep ...

In the dating world, a fairly common question black women get asked is “what do you bring to the table?”, often by men who have little to offer, y...
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Pink Pill Spotlight: Meet Naomi

In this interview, we will be conducting our first Pink Pill Spotlight. While recent interviews have featured women, who are married or dating, this i...
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You Can Have That “Strong Black Woman”...

My most recent article, discussing my thoughts on Karine Jean-Pierre jumping to the defense of inadequately secured Senator Kamala Harris when a prote...
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Coming Soon! The Pink Pill for College Girls!

Since the amazing success of The Pink Pill, the first self-improvement course made specifically for black women, I’ve had ladies ask me if there...
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How Pinkies Do Preppy Summer Parties in Posh La Jo...

La Jolla is the wealthiest city in San Diego, with streets with million-dollar homes considered slightly shabby. The gorgeous cliffs and coves at the ...
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For Mother’s Day: 8 Ways Black Women Fail Th...

Let me start by saying that I’m not a mother. I want children, just not yet. If you think my current childless state means I am not qualified to spe...
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My Thoughts On Ayesha Curry’s Real Problem

By now, you’ve heard about Ayesha Curry’s Red Table Talk interview. Some of the things that came out were her insecurity about the sports groupies...
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Dress Codes, Faux Outrage, and the Black Woman’s...

Growing up, my mom always told me the only event you wear pajamas to was your bed. She imparted that the only reason PJs should be seen outside is if ...
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