A Comprehensive Newcomer’s Guide to BB&W...

This post was created to shed some light on the different words and phrases that you see used around here with a great deal of frequency by regulars. ... READ MORE

Etiquette 101: 9 Tips for a more polished appearan...

I have learned by experience that because people are always watching you and making internal judgments, it is wise to be aware of your outward present... READ MORE

A Necessary Understanding: Strength Is NOT Rationa...

I don't like repeating myself if I don't have to, but in some things, repetition becomes absolutely necessary.... READ MORE

Opinion: “You think you BETTER than us?̶...

"What is this love affair that many black women have with dysfunction and misery? So dedicated to this non-sense that they will not only do anything t... READ MORE

Second Memo: BWE/IRR-blog sites are STILL NOT your...

Toni's telling it like it t-i-is!... READ MORE

Deborrah Cooper Writes Open Letter to Taffi Dollar...

"Let’s just get to the point: What are you doing, Taffi? Why are you protecting Creflo and allowing your daughters to be condemned by the world as b... READ MORE

She’s Moving On: Race Woman No More

"As long as Black women continue to accept their subordinate status in the Black community, Black people will continue their descent into the gutter. ... READ MORE

Flashpost: Military is Studying the “Secrets...

What is it about black women that the suicide rates are so much lower?... READ MORE

Claiming vs. Exclusion Part 2: Discrimination in I...

Are we all on the same team?... READ MORE

Recognizing the Necessity and Importance of Dark-S...

I don't know when it happened exactly, but one day, I was looking at television and it hit me: "Where are all the dark-skinned women?"... READ MORE

BEWARE of the “Polite” Poisoner

"The polite poisoner comes in the form of "the voice of reason" with a civil manner, a person that offers an "alternate point of view" or in the role ... READ MORE

The Gift of Shame (Part 1): Is a Little Shame ...

Toni argues that a little shame can be a good thing....

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