Got this question from a subscriber on my You Tube channel. She seemed pretty desperate so I moved her to the front of the queue…

When do you think it’s time to introduce your real hair to your boyfriend especially when you are his first black girl. I know it’s a insecure issue a lot of us are facing with our black man. But another ball game when he didn’t grow up with sister with black hair. Something I’m facing please help. I have my insecurities but I am an attractive black women. It’s just because when I decide to move in with him it will be something I will have to deal with.

Did you ever have the ‘kinky’ hair discussion? Was it really that important?